I need a girls advice

  • Chloe
    20 years ago

    hello , im only 14 but i think it would be sweet if you hint to her then , then ask her to go to the pictures or somewhere with you , then tell her that you like her !

  • gasping for air
    20 years ago

    do something with flowers and a present maybe... find something you think she'd like and then get it for her.... i know that would make me melt with happiness..... and write a little poem for her or something to 1) show her how you feel, 2) show her you're in touch with your feelings, 3) show her your talent.... it would work on me.....

  • gasping for air
    20 years ago

    if she really likes you then she wont be creeped out.... if she is creeped out then there's something wrong with her.... no offense...... if she does like you she wont be creeped out like i said, she'll be flattered that you took the time to write something for her...

  • heather
    20 years ago

    hey martin wut i would do is buy her a rose or something that may help u out. I kno how that is i felt that way about a boy before too right here if it works ok

  • Sophi
    20 years ago

    Instead of busting out a poem take her out and say something to her like, "Hey I wanna tell you something" and then say the poem. It'd take a little of memorization but you should do it. If u guys are already friends it wouldn't be as hard to do.

  • Jeri
    20 years ago

    dont think that the poem idea is crazy or obsessed, think that it is very sweet, i would be flattered if a guy wrote a poem and like slipped it through my locker door, just make sure you put you name on it, so she knoews who it is from.

  • heather
    20 years ago

    hey just talk to her tell her how u feel

  • gasping for air
    20 years ago

    be yourself and in some way tell her how you feel... you'll regret it if you don't ..... and above all be yourself... when it comes down to it, do what you think is the best thing to do... not what anyone else thinks.... use your intuition....
    Good luck... write back and let me know how it goes... im curious about how things went or will go....
    Luvs
    Manda Lynn

  • Dawn Manna
    20 years ago

    i think that you should buy her a rose...red...and take her on a walk then tell her how you feel. ask her if she feels the same as you and also tell her that there is no rush or hurry. you just want to take it slow and get to know her. a guy did this to me and i fell for him fast...it lasted 3 years. or if you dont want to do that...just say how you feel but dont do it in front of friends. things could be kinda ockward. good luck and please post back what you did or email me and tell me...pahoney88@excite.com

  • Casey
    20 years ago

    If you know her really well buy some candy, put it in a plain paper bag and wrap the candies in bits of paper with memories of good times you guys had. If you guys dont really know eachother well then just tell her how much you like her, believe me, its every girl's dream to have the guy they like to come up to them and say Hey i like you a lot and i think we should hang out.

  • Joy
    20 years ago

    hey...i can see ur prob. i had the same prob with a guy i really liked. this was the approach i took: *he and i are actually "more than friends" now!* what i did was i found out his locker at school. i wrote him a note just saying that i wanted to be friends and maybe could we talk. i included my screen name....but not my name. i let him try to guess who i was. one night he IM'ed me and we've been talking ever since! he and i are really close...his best friend told me he talks to me more than neone else....maybe you should try this approach!

  • Fireflower
    19 years ago

    ummmm.... ok? lol

    i think that you should just hang out as friends first, but be flirty. not a girl kind of flirty, because then she'll think you're gay... which is not good at all in your situation... anyway. you have to make sure that you are alone together, and not in a hurry. inbetween classes is not a good time, because then you will feel rushed. before you ask her, you must let all emotion go, and breathe. and just remember, she's not da only fish in da sea dont 'sha know?? lol

    good luck, vedali