Has Your hart eva been BROKEN?? wat was it like? how did u cope?

mine was awful..i was in high skool and this guy used me, showed me off 2 his mates then dumped me..it was sooo painful and up til 2day whenever i think about it i wince and feel sad

i broke a galz hart once...it was terriable..i wish i cud have her back...

u haven't been online in a long time nala...is everything alright??

it was terrible...it hurt like hell..didn't eat for a week

What are harts?

well, I remember the first time my HEART was broken...It was sometime in third grade when my boyfriend gave my friend a peice of gum but didn't give me any :-( And then he threw a basketball at my head. I don't chew gum anymore. it saddens me. haha

honestly, I haven't had my heart shattered to a million peices yet. But I just can't wait.

Ok...I'm not trying to start anything. I just want to put out my thoughts.

I think that it is so stupid when young teens, get so upset about a breakup. They think their life is over. I just don't understand it. Yeah. I've had my heart broken many a times, and I've broken some myself! It's a fact of life! If everyone spent the rest of their lives with the first person they ever have a crush on, or fall in love with, and go out with? Then there would be a lot of very unhappy couples out there, and there would be a lot of young couples as well. Broken hearts need to happen. They help you grow. They make you tougher when it comes to picking the next one! You have every right in the world to get upset, and cry, and stuff like that. But never go as far as wanting to die. Unless you're like 95, and have never fallin in love, then just learn from it! Don't beat yourself up about it! The best way to get over a broken heart is to jump back out there and start looking again.

Sorry...I had to get that out. Again, that was not meant to go towards any one person, just a thought that I wanted to throw out there.

The first time I got my heart broken was in 8th grade. It sucked. It was right at the end of the school year, so then school ended, I started colorguard, never saw the guy again till school started back up but I had a new crush, and my ex was a stupid jock that treated girls like shit so I was happy that it happened. Lol. I had a much better summer without him, then I think I would have with him.

My first really sucked!! I got depressed started cutting myself getting involved in drugs and alcohol and the sad thing was i was only 14 but now im actually doing really good. the only thing that will help is time.

My first heart break...was with my first boyfriend, i was 15 years old. He basically used me for sex but because i didn't give him any, he dumped me. I adored that guy so much, I didn't see it coming at all so i was devastated. It took me a while to get over him properly, and although he didn't treat me right, he made me learn so many things. Eg. to speak up if i feel uncomfortable, so in a way i have him to thank for that.
How did i cope with my break up? Well the right thing to do is surround yourself with friends and keep yourself busy with things, get rid of everything to do with your ex.

I wear my heart on my sleeve, so yeah, lots of times, but I wear them with pride...I've broken some too. Not so proud of those.

when this guy dumped me... he said he couldnt dedicate himself to a girlfriend and hockey (his life long dream to become a hockey player) i cried in bed i went to bed crying, i woke up crying and so on it was terrible i couldnt concentrate on anythign else.....
P.S. its awesome to find out soo many people feel what i do

my 1st was.
a week ago

bf for 7 months - love him
he loves me
we want to be together. forever.

he lives far from me

iv met him only 4 times.

but those 4 times. will be memorys i will never forget

he made me a vid.
a slide show at 1st with out song - howie day - collied -
i cryed

then he dumped me that night

iv never.
never
felt pain like that

it hurt.

and i cryed. for the 1st time
in a long time

because,
i love him.

My heart broke today.

He was a crush too but he acted like he liked me too and he was kinda leading me on the first few days/weeks and then on friday and today he was acting like a complete jerk toward me and like he hated me completely & i dont know what I did but at least i know he's a jerk and I should get over him..
If only I knew how.

I feel sick and i've lost my apetite already..:( its this feeling i cant get rid off grr

i never ever had my heart broken and never broke someone else's.GO ME!