How does one tell? And should one tell in the first place?

How does one go about telling a certain person/persons about a certain situation/situations? Especially if said situation is very thouchy to talk about and said person isnt even sure they are completely past said situation. Also, said person is afraid that telling may do no good and infact make said situation worse. What should said person do?

i think u should do what feels right. Personally i think u should tell the person even though it may hurt and it may be hard i think its the right thing to do. Better to have regretted saying something than not saying anything at all
luv ash

All I can say is honesty is the best policy , but then again they always say if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all . Not overly sure what your situation is cause it was a little confusing but if your asked for your opinion (voice it ) but if its out of anger or someone being a smart ass (ignore it ) their not worth the waste of precious breath .

Its not out of anger. What it is is actually just bad news. There is nothing to do about it now, and Im not even sure if I should let anyone know. I dont want people to worry about me and offer me help. I can handle things on my own. I just feel like I should tell them. I dont know. I am so confused.

In such a situation, you can either not tell anyone, and either try living with it as it is, or try to solve it without any help/advise from anyone else. Or you can tell someone who you trust to see if this person can help you. You don't have to tell names when speaking of the situation, you can simply say person A, or use "this" and "that" person. It's all up to you and the person who has the poblem to know how you will takkle this. But if you try do solve it on your own, and you realise that it's not etting any bether, or even worst, get some help from anyone who can provide it.
Good luck

The sitution is over. I dont THINK it will ever come back up. I have told a few select people just because I knew they would find out anyways. But I havent told my family yet, and I am afraid I will scare them with what I tell them. I just cant decide what to do. I want them to know, but I dont think they will understand.

I know they will be there for me, and I also know they will watch me like a hawk, and worry like crazy. They do love me and that is the problem. Id they didnt telling them wouldnt be such a problem. I am starting to thinkI should just keep all of this to myself. I just dont want to make the wrong decision.

Okay, I came to a decision. I am going to keep it to myself. Atleast for a few more years. Its not worth worrying everyone. I can deal with this on my own. Thought Id just let ya'll know that I made up my mind.