I want to confess but it will end up breaking me

I really like this guy Jan, at times i try to deny it because its so hard to like somone so much and know they are in love withsomone else. Jan liked me for a long time last year and i liked him then too but i left him and broke his heart, even though he wanted me back i wanted to wait intill i wouldent hurt him. I feel like im in love with him somtimes and it hurts so much having to see him kiss his girlfriend. i want to confess to him but he will say somthing like "so what im happy with Katie so go away" every morrning i stand there watching them kiss, people are saying he is really serious with her and plan on staying together. i dont think i can change that but i know that if i tryed or maybe there is a way to get him to know how i feel. i can barly speak when he passes me in the hall. he almost compleatly ignores me. if there is a solution for my problem please tell me i will do anything. but he is happy with the girl he has now, maybe i shouldent ruin his love for her just for me. i love him but he loves her, and he is happy. im not happy he is with her but atleast one of us is happy.

awww, that's too bad. :( the kitty sorry.

yeah, to bad for me >.

That's really complicated. I can relate. It really is hard seeing someone you love with someone else. Even though it may seem hard you can't ruin his love with someone else just to make you feel happy. It might be a good thing to let him know how you feel though. Just to see what his reply would be. Good luck. Whatever you do i hope it works out for one of you.

how do i tell him, i can barly speak with him i get so nervous and become silent till he goes away. he usually dosent talk to me and somtimes i think he is ignoring me v.v

Hmmm...how about writing the feelings you have for him in the form of a poem. Or write it in a letter. When you see him or pass him in the hall way. Hand the note to him and continue walking. In the note make it clear how you feel and tell him you want to know what he thinks of that. Tell him to either talk to you or write back.

what if he ends up telling his friends, and his girlfriend (who introduced herself to me this morrning) gets mad or worse x.x

Well if you really love him. You would take that risk. Who knows? maybe he still has feelings for you that he is hiding. You will never know unless you try.

thanks ill give it a try tommorow ^^ maybe i can confess to him, if it goes wrong and his gf gets mad ill tell her she has no reason to worry. v.v

i think you should do what you think is right

Ok i hope it all works out. Just do whatever your heart tells you. If really feel you want him to know how much you love him. Then do whatever you feel safest doing. ^_^

Based on what you say, I think you should just try to move on with your life and consider this sad saga as a learning experience. Seriously, if I were the guy and I was happy with a new gf, why would I want to return to someone who had caused me heartache before?

You'll find someone else. Just appreciate what you have while you have it. Sometimes we see a rainbow in another meadow, only to discover it was an illusion when we get there.

yeah i guess, maybe i should wait awhile see how things happen. maybe it really is just an illusion. i dont want to hurt him agian. not like he would give me that chance. He still liked be after i left him and he didnt give up intill summer time.

I still think you should find out how he feels but thats only in my opinion. If you really love someone. Even if you do move on. Somwhere in your heart you will always love them. You can't forget someone you love. Sometimes it's also a good thing to move on but if you feel there could still be a chance. I say go for it. ^.^