Troubles in Paradise

  • nicole
    19 years ago

    Being with someone for that long of a time has you always feeling different ways. I started dating my boyfriend in grade 8 and now im in grade 11 . i have never been with anyone longer, before him my longest relationship was 3 months and that was in grade 6. I used to have feelings like what if this is the one guy i'll be with forever, never knowing what could have happend and its normal to think these things. But eventually you have to realize that if he means as much to you as you say he does, that wont matter. you will feel happy that you have had this one person for so long and it doesnt amtter that you havent experienced some things beacuse nothing else really matters when your with him. But then again being with a guy gives you restictions too that most of your single friends dont have and you seem to miss out on a few things, but as tme goes on those things wont matter.

  • *tanya*
    19 years ago

    It's not wrong to want to experience things with other guys, but make sure you're absolutely sure that's what you want to do, otherwise he might thing you're breaking up with him...

    Then again, he could be thinking exactly the same thing! Maybe you should ask him subtlely just to see what he thinks first? For eg, "Don't you ever get sick of being with me?" Something that won't hurt his feelings.... anyway, that's all the advice I can offer. Hope it helps :)