Am I the Only one Who Feels They Should Follow Your Heart

Curtis...find yourself a new chick. She's a lost cause and you're both too damn young to be thinking about settling down.

I got married two weeks after I turned 20 and spent five great years with her and 17 horrible ones. At that age, I thought I knew it all. I didn't. I still don't. But, what I do know is that when it is real love, it is unconditional and it goes both ways. You do things for each other that you would normally think are bs and a pain in the ass, but now you enjoy doing them. She does the same for you. Neither of you ask the other to be anyone other than who you are. Never settle for less. If you do, you end up giving away pieces of yourself until there is nothing left to give and the resentment becomes horrible. I can't advise you what to do. All I can say is this: Never settle for someone who treats you less than you deserve to be treated. Ever.

Curtis I will tell you my oh so pittiful story. I was with someone for 5 years. He didn't treat me the way I wanted to be treated so I was constantly leaving him and threatening him I wouldn't take him back. I always did so it became a game to him. He'd do what ever he wanted because he knew I'd take him back. I'm now moving to Texas, he was supposed to go but then decided against it. So I was considering staying because of him. I have decided to go and leave him behind. It is THE HARDEST thing I've ever done. I love that man more than anyone could ever know...but I know it's time to let him go. Why drag yourself through all that. Just let her go. It's obviously not meant to be and if it is it WILL be. She knows how you feel so if it's going to be it will be. Sit it out and wait...but do it alone or "playing the field." Don't wait for someone who will give you less than what you want and more so deserve.

no you aren't your heart isn't just for pumping blood, its meant to follow.