*/*/I love him but we fight...alot*/*/

Ever since my boyfriend got his job, I feel like we don't spend enough time together. He doesn't drive and neither do I. His parents won't let him come over to my house everyweekend because they think we see eachother enough at school. And i feel like my boyfriend isn't trying to make our relationship work. We are happy when we are together but when we are apart we argue about trying to find time to spend together and I don't like fighting with him and i am beginning to get tired of this but i know i love him and could never leave him....ideas?

just ask him how he feels about, and just don't give up until you get an answer, and if u start to fight tell him to talk about it when u 2 r-n't fighting.

Yeah but at school we never see eachother and so we really only see eachother every other weekend and i feel that he doesn't do things to let me know how much he loves me anymore and i'm scared to tell him because i don't know how he'll react

Does anybody else ahve any advice???

the guy i love lives in england. I live in california. you've got it better i would say. if he loves you then he will listen to you. if he doesn't he's not worth your time. trust me. but if you need to talk more, email me.

erylthelittlelozzer@msn.com

xox

Ariel

I just moved away from my boyfriend...I only get to see him once a month...so if you get to see yours every other weekend, then I'm jealous!

My advice to you...is if you guys fight all the time, then don't give it the chance! Like me and my guy....we are fighting more now that we are apart then when we spent every day together...but you know what? If you just sit there and tell stories, and tell him that you miss him, and then keep laughing about stuff...then you guys wont be able to fight. Don't be mad if he has to go, and don't get mad if he says that he can't come see you or whatever....you have to stand tall, and be strong.

Good luck.

Me and my boyfriend used to fight a lot, over the same thing as you. I got upset I couldn't see him and to me it seemed like I was the only person making the effort. This went on for months, but i don't think it was saying for us to split up because like you, when we're together we're fab, no arguments at all.
I do know how it feels, i been there, and it is upsetting when they can't see us, we take it differently to them. I'm not sure about you, but when my boyfriend says he can't see me, i take it really personally, like he can't see me because he doesn't want to, when its not like that at all.
The best thing to do, is talk to your boyfriend. I mean properly talk. And if you feel like you're gonna get angry at him or feel an argument about to begin, leave asap for an hour or so to calm down then talk things over again.
Its all about learning about each other, something I'm still in the process of with my boyfriend!
Good luck, and don't give up. xxx

Also, when a guy has a girl, he feels like his work is done. Hes impressed you, so he doesn't need to anymore. We should know our guys love us, but we need to hear those words, tell him.

My ex and I lived in different towns and the only way we got to talk was over the phone! Plus to make matters worse my aunt and uncle(which I live with) didn't like him! But even with this type of relationship we fought constantly and I hated not being able to see him and have our arguements in person! So basically here's my advise to you...Be glad that you get to spend any time with him at all and without him being there all the time it makes the time you are together more special! Besides if it's love it'll last! And even though this guy is my ex we'll end up back together before it's over with!