hey i need some help, from a girl's point of view ~a d l

  • skye16
    19 years ago

    well (in HELP PLEASE i really need some help) i mentioned this girl i lyk and didn't know what i should do becuz i was too afraid to call her, well i saw her at skool and didn't say hi and then i walked past her, slowly, and we were looking into each others eyes for lyk seven seconds or so... and then today i was coming out of communications class and her friend, which is in my comm. class, ran into her in the hall and said she wanted to talk to her, NO thats not what im getting at. so the girl i lyk was lyk not that far behind me... and i kept going into the direction i was going and the further i went my heart started beating faster and faster. Well, and I'm kinda positive she knew i was there. now i don't know what to do, on wednesday... two days ago i think... i mailed her something so it shoulda got there lyk yesterday so on monday, should i just wait after comm. class and see if i run into her again... or should i call her, but in the thing i mailed wednesday i asked her if she cared i call her. what should i do?? ~nathan

  • ASPHYXIATED
    19 years ago

    One question, Do you know her? or did you just see her in school and like her? Anyway I think you should go for it, call her! If she blows you down its not the end of the world. and if she says yes yas could start something good. This is one of those times you need to take a chance, your young so go for it :D

  • skye16
    19 years ago

    no ive lyked her for over a year

  • sadnessinshadows
    19 years ago

    yha.. i'd want a guy to go and talk to me.. she might not know you like her, or she's scared to get rejected.. *as you are i guess*

  • ASPHYXIATED
    19 years ago

    Well then definatly go for it! for all you know she is waiting!Like britt said confidence is good, just ask her =)

  • ASPHYXIATED
    19 years ago

    People keep posting before me :-| But majority rules GO FOR IT xD

  • Catty
    19 years ago

    You need to talk to her. Be confident and tell her how u feel. Just say something like...i've liked you for a long time and was wondering if you might like me too....or something like that IDk but u need to TALK TO HER....or u never going to get anywhere with this girl....she won't wait forever

  • ¤|Æ’lοяεηζîά|¤
    19 years ago

    Gosh, you gotta make the move boy!! Dont be afraid of getting rejected, you gotta TRY!! Or, im sure, your gonna regret for life. Girls are always waiting for guys to make the move. BE THE MAN!

  • skye16
    19 years ago

    yeah, but now I found out shes going out with the person who sits next to me in communications.

  • Cheyanne
    19 years ago

    Let me ask you, how much do you like this girl? In the end you should tell her how you feel, but keep in mind chances are she won't leave him for you. That's if she's loyal to her relationship with him...or maybe in general. You say her b/f is your friend? In that case, it's a little more complicated. Whatever you do, support their relationship...so if you do get a chance to be with her and they break up you won't feel so guilty "swooping in". Really get to know her man. Keep in mind what she loves and go for her heart. That's if they don't work out you understand. In this case if you really like her, you want her to be happy...and if that's with him then, well, you gotta learn to deal. Even so, going out with a friend's ex g/f isn't very good at most times. That's all I guess.

    p.s. thanks for the advise, on that subject it helped for some part.