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thanks hun well he is 21 me 15 we never did anything like go out with each other well he is so sweet he told me he was thankful for me and really cared about me and he would be sad if i killed myself or died first question do you think he loves me well then he told me he had a girlfriend i am happy but co nfused i believe there is still hope but then i think what if God wants something better i do want but i dont know what do you think

thank youi so much that has helped thank you i voe you

Bleh love is bad.

Okaay I have a bf and he is the sweetest thing everr but hes an online bf not real life one and there is this guy my friend likes in real life and I like him too grr I go to sleep everynight thinking about him and I wake up every morning happy to go to school so I can see him and stuff and I dont know what to do the guy i like in real life is like the popular crowd and i dont know how he feels about me and I am scared to dump my bf cause i will hurt his feelings and Im not sure if the other guy i like in real life will like me and its so confusingg grrr love smuckssss

hey i was just wonderin' if yall could help me out here. well if you read the post about her bf sittin next to me in one of my classes. well the other day i asked her if she liked me and she said just as a friend, but i know thats a lie. what should i do? i dunno if its becuz she has a bf or what. i dunno what to do. so can someone help me??

ok so i like these 2 guys one i've known my whole live the other if kno for like 10 year. the one i've known for ten years ive like for 6 months and i like him a lot but he likes my best friend. the other i dont like that much but ive liked him on and off for a couple of years now. but we are in eighth grade but all three of us are goin 2 the same high school plus we live in a very very small town and we all are like a block away from each other so i see them every day and we've gone to school with eachother since preschool and the school we go to only has like not even 200 kids altogether so im in there class but after we gradurate i might move so i might not every see them again but i like them alot and i cant get over the one guy i've tried alot i just cant and i just dont kno what 2 do. please help

how old r u?

Here's the thing. One of my best friends broke up with his girlfriend. Whenever he feels depressed, pissed, or just wants to talk he calls me. Just recently we were talking on the phone and he said "i want to tell you something but you might think it's creepy". I asked him what it was and told him he could tell me. He then mumbled a little and replied "i love you". In a very gentle voice. I'm kind of confused. Does this mean he has feelings for me? All my friends say he does because he's always around me. I'm the only other girl he has said i love you to other then his ex. I already got opinions but what do you think?

thanks nikki i will see what happens. You helped alot. If anything happens i will let you know. Again thanks.

Aww Nikki, just wanted to say that the adivce you gave to beautiful D was very...i dont even know the word...deep, beautiful.

Nikki today something happened. The guy i needed advise on. He reached out his hand to hold mine today. I guess he does have feelings for me. I'm wearing his hoodie right now. Even though he hasn't asked me. It seems like we're going out. Do you think he is gonna ask me?

it's really long but i'll try to skip some lesser unimportant parts

i met maryjean at sailing in aug i developed feeling for her so i told her how i felt she said she wasn't sure if she liked me and that we should be friends. so a week after sailing she sent an e-mail thats was insanely love (like my mom would even say shit like what maryjean said) i said i felt the same way then she said lets be friends i said it sounded good. so we went out with a bunch of people but said nothing other than hi since her sisters were there and andrews(he'll come in later) sister was always in the way. after i said it sucked she said she agreed and we should try again without andrews sister. before the "date" i decided to start rehab to help our relationship and i asked if we could go out the day before it started she said yes, but she made plans to go out the day we were supposed to. so i said we should talk during rehab since i wouldn't handle it without seeing her. she freaked out and said she hated me and didn't care anymore so i waited for her to cool off and asked what she wanted us to be she said she didn't know so i told her to think about it. so monday after school i went to talk to her i planned to stay cool and say carfully worded stuff but when i saw her i forgot everything so i just ask what she wanted she said nothing so after she got home i was walking home halfway on her street i turned around knocked on her door but her mom said maryjean went babysitting (i knew she didn't because i could see the entire street) so if she was gonna hide behind her mom she was really sad or angry. so i went home and e-mailed her saying i was sorry for fucking us up she said she'd never forgive me and to not talk to her again. so i didn't but a week later she asked how rehab was i said it wasn't because i didn't care without her. she didn't seem to interested even tho she asked. so this thursday she said hi on msn and she said she was wondering if we should talk. i told her to fuck off because she said we were nothing. today andrew told me he asked her out and she said yes so i'm pist off because she said all that insanely love shit to me and really i don't know if she was fucking bullshitting me

so question should i talk to her? or continue with my drugfilled super fun way of getting over her?

and if i do talk to her what should i say cause i often fuck up when talking to her

and i really still like her alot

I am sooooooooooooooooooo not reading that big butt comment..........

should i talk to her tight away or give her more time?

plus she said yes when andrew asked her out so i don't know if i can take all the nice things she said about me seriously since she said "lets wait" for me

plus i'm angry know that she said yes to andrew
and the when is really important cause i have no idea

I'm Glad To See I'm Not The Only Nikki On This Site With Great Moral Advice :) xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

Ok..i'm still really confused. The guy i told you about before. Well it seemed like he was avoiding me so i wrote him a note. He wrote back saying he thought i was avoiding him. He called me tonight and i asked him if he liked this girl who always flirts with him. He said "ugg hell no" then he said he can't tell when someone likes him or flirts with him. We both kept saying stuff underneath our breath. I don't understand whats going on. Please help. I'm sorry to bother you again.

Thanks nikki you have really helped alot. Today i wrote him a note and he wrote back saying how his sister thought he liked me or i liked him. Then he put "awkward moment....sorry!". During gym he told my friend Kathy the same thing. She asked him if it was true he said he didn't know. Kathy also asked him if he would ever go out with me. I found out that he decided he is gonna ask me out. Even though i'm not suppose to know lol. Thanks alot for all your help. You give great advise. I can't wait till Friday. That's the day he said he would come up to my locker and ask me. Thanks again. Hope to ttyl.

hey nikki well first of all i want to comend you on all the advice you have given its really great

SO here is my problem i was dating this girl for about a month and her mom found out that we were together and me and her had done "stuff" together not major but enough to feel like i was being used when she broke up with me the thing is she doesnt want to but her home life is really bad and i mean real bad and her mom just gives her to much crap about it. Idon't know what to do she has been ignoring me after we decided to be friends i don't know if maybe she changed her mind or what but it hurts and i have no idea what to do
Krysten

hey i'm so in love with this boy and i don't what to do about it so what shall i do

Ok... I have known this guy for about a year, and this whole summer up until about 2-3 weeks ago we were dating off and on. One night he calls me and tells me he just wants to be friends, cause he realizes that he can other girls, and he doesnt want to keep going on and off with me. i cried for about 4 hours and I even puked.

I have recovered these past couple weeks, and I thought I was over him. We still email eachother, and I never think about him until I open his email. Everytime he mentions another girl, I get jealous. What can I do to stop this pain? What can I do to get over him? I AM SICK OF THIS FEELING!!!
*Deadly Angel*

alright i talked to maryjean (see above) told her about the fuck off thing the drug thing i didn't push andrew into the conversation alot just mentioned that he told me she said yes to him. now i have no idea what she means she said "well i duno if u can give you another chance to be friends or not right now ...i need to think about that after everything you did and said to me if thats okaii ..." and "i haven't forgiven you yet, but i guess if yu want to talk to me, we can talk on msnn but if we do it doesn't be i have forgivin yu just to make that clear..." (excuse her spelling its horrible) i dont know what to do she wants to think about what happened but it was 2 weeks ago and she still doesn't forgive me (for what i don't know there so many things to pick from)

so
what do i say?
what do i do?
what the hell is she trying to tell me?