should i or shouldn't i?

You shouldn't. Wait as long as you want to, and if he loves you like he says he does he will understand.

You're only 15. I swear I don't know how many ppl have to tell ppl like you that NO you shouldn't have sex. My God. Doesn't anyone think anymore. If he really loves you he'd quit asking and just understand. Sorry to be harshly blunt but it doesn't matter if you love him. When you're 15 you're not mature enough to determine whether you're going to be with this person for the rest of your life. You can have a fun relationship without sex. I've been with my bf 8 mnths and we haven't had sex and aren't planning to and our relationship is perfect. Get some morals and values and if you're going to have sex with him, don't get all heart broken if you get pregnant, get AIDS, or get your heart torn into pieces.

i think it is best if you do tell him because then he would understand more....it maybe hard but if he does really love you, he will stick by you

Here's my suggestion, if you are having doubts about doing it now, DONT DO IT! it will tear you apart after, ESPECIALLY if he leaves you. But if he can promise you he loves you enough to not leave you after then thats when your heart has to decide if you really want to.
thats my dime
Trav

well if the topic of sex comes up again just say that you're afraid or whatever and if he asks my..then tell him. but if you aren't ready to have sex then don't do it...

lol!!

She's actually right...so listen to her..

Sorry, I'm Not Trying To Be Rude Sweetheart, But I've Heard That a Million Times, I've Never Fallen For It...Neither Should You, There Are a Million Ways To Show Someone You Love Them And That You Care Other Than Sleeping With Them, Test The Relationship And Test Him...By Telling Him You'd Rather Not Have Sex With Him Or You Would Rather Wait....If He Sticks Around After You Tell Him That...He Isn't Interested In Sex Alone...If He Gives Up On You Because You Wont Sleep With Him Then He Only Wanted Sex To Begin With *Read Between The Lines Hun* xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

:O your 16 and you've already been pregnant ? i think that would be enough of a heads up and a sign that says DONT DO IT. Although he might pressure you and tell you things that any girl would love to hear, but this might be all he is after. Don't do it for your sake.

I suggest that you don't. Tell him that if he loves you as much as he says he does, that he will wait until you are ready for that. Tell him that that isn't how he can show you love... tell him other ways he can show you he loves you, like by telling you and sounding so sincere when it comes out of his mouth and things like that... maybe even a romantic dinner... just explain that sex isn't the only way to show you he loves you.
~BJ~