my boyfriend found letters to another boy

  • Loved
    19 years ago

    ok i asked my bf to come over and he was looking at my little notes that i writ my friends but he found a letter i wrote a nother guy and now he thinks im cheating on him but in not i just wrote it because i was bord ....what should i do?

  • DarknessFallz
    19 years ago

    Well, I would of never wrote the note even though i was bored but if i decided too then at least i would of hide it away from eye sight knowing that my boyfriend was coming over. If i were in your shoes i would just explain what had happened and if he loves you then he'll forgive you and believe you but dont forget to say that it would never happen again.

  • Loved
    19 years ago

    thanks

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    Yikes...that sucks....

    Give him a kiss and say, "You're right....I've been meaning to tell you...I'm lesbian."

    I don't know how that's at all relevant....but I think it'd be funny! hehe

  • nicole
    19 years ago

    Well it doesnt really matter that she wrote it to another boy cause girls can have guy friends. If she was bored or whatever and just wanted to talk theres nothing wrong with that. But since your boyfriend got mad than i suggest you dont do it again.

    You should just tell him it didnt mean anything and that it was pointless and your sorry that you upset him. If it bothered him that much then tell him you wont do it again.

    If you mean a lot to him he will be forgiving and forget the whole thing.

    иιcolε ♥

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    19 years ago

    It all depends on what the letter says....
    ~BJ~

  • Shædow Poet
    19 years ago

    Who said anything about her loving him?!?!

    girls have guy friends, your boyfriend is WAY too protective if he cared that you wrote a letter to another guy- although, it depends on its context...

  • an endless sky
    19 years ago

    just tell him y u wrote the letter in the 1st place

    ^_^