My friend is............... DEAD!

Well, I live..... well, use to live in St. Bernard Parish, where hurricane Katrina recently destoyed. I have absolutly no hose and it sucks but that is not my biggest problem. I've become VERY close to someone and I nw find out that he............. well, didn't make it and now.......... well, I don't know what to do. Can someone PLEASE help me?

Darling, i feel for you. if you want to talk then e-mail me: berry_bonce@hotmail.com.

I'll try to help you all i can.

I'll be thinking of you

*Hippie*
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Nicely said, Britt...You're a great example how not everyone on this site is a jackass like Elizabeth/Albaby believes...

It is REALLY hard! I know it had a reason but it is still very painful!

my friend charlie's possibly dead... he was on a plane this summer on up to the east... he lived in texas :(

It is just reallyoverwhelming because this has never really happened to me before and I don't know what to do or how to react. I know being depressed all the time won't help but I can't help it!

I know there are a lot of people whom hav died in St. Bernard. I hate to say it but I know I'm gonna get another message from someone telling me someone else has died. You are a great person. Thanks a lot Britt!

Yea, I didn't understand, I really didn't get it and didn't care befroe. I thoght it couldn't happen to me. Well, it did and I was hit with reality. I hate it but it's life, I'm just not sure on how to deal with it! Thank's I'm gonna e-mail you 2 morrow! :)

So, it's alright to cry?

It's going to be hard next year when they rebuild my school. He was in ROTC with me and all I will do is keep staring at that empty seat he use to sit in! :(

Aww hun, that is a tragedy really, were all here to help if you ever need to talk.

I know its hard but, like !brit! said,"he is in a much better place"... you probably feel so bad and i understand that but you know...he'll be watching over you and he'll guide you threw everything and anything,,even though hes not alive on earth...hes alive spirtually in your heart... im so sorry about your lost...and i wish you the best!!!

love always,
Vanessa DeAnda

its normal to feel grief after a death, not necessarily depression. This has obviously happened recently so give yourself time. No-one expects you to accept this loss so soon...just be aroudn those you love for support and you'll be ok in a while ok hun?!
take care x x x

Lots of thoughts keep running through my head. Thoughts of me and him together. And seeing his picture makes me break down. I even wrote a poem about it. How should I ...... can I deal with it easily. It seekms like it is just escalating. Almost a week and a half passed and I am in a worse condidtion now than I was then ! What to do?