ED help

First off i dont want you to try and convince me that not eating is bad. Because its not. But just wondering if anyone here is ana... do you get headaches? And how do you get the dizziness to go away? Its driving me crazy. Please dont tell me to eat. That would be bad.

EAT DAMMIT! EAT! it isn't bad, it's good for you! IT'S NECESSARY TO STAY ALIVE! and you get the headaches and dizziness to go away by....this is a shocker...eating!

now, i'm not trying to be mean.....but i know i'm being just that....i'm sorry, but you sound really stupid when you say that stuff (i can understand in a way....but then again....i don't lol).....if you need to talk about it, i'm always here, you can email me or whatever.....but you need to eat, it isn't a bad thing....it's bad when you overeat....but that's it lol...

i'm sorry that you think i sound stupid but thats just because you dont understand.

ok, people like you, i want to choke and shake some effing sense into you! it is bad not to eat! how could you think it's not?! you'll DIE if you don't eat! you won't be pretty, or beautiful, you'll look sick and eventually starve yourself to death.....are you saying that isn't bad?

sorry that i want to be perfect. I cant control anything else or do anything right. Thats the one thing that i can set standards for...and acheive them. And no i dont completely starve myself...because thats not possible to live like that.

ok, control how you eat, but eat enough to be healthy! i want to be perfect too, but it isn't going to happen! it just isn't...i don't have control over anything at the moment, my best friend is a bitch and is ruining my life....she makes me feel like shit...and i have problems of my own i'm trying to work through....but i know it's wrong...and you have to realize it's wrong not to eat!

listen to taylor, she makes more sense and is better at this thing than i am lol...

i am 5' 2" and i weigh 108

dude, wtf?! you're like an effing twig already! you want to know how much i weigh? i'm 5'4" and i weigh 143 lbs....if anyone needs to lose weight, it's me lol...

ever been to a pro ana site? Yeah thats what made me want to be like this.

and please stop calling me stupid

no apology needed taylor, it's true....

all i wanted was someone who experienced the same thing and could help me stop the dizziness without eating. I didnt want a lecture

well, you got one....you need one....

Haha, I love people like this stupid person.
Makes living that much better.
Good laugh now and then.

You know what works for me??

Take a wild guess?

EATING!

Not to mention..if it's a control issue....what I usually do is do the things that will piss people off....because who is trying to make you perfect?!! WHO IN THIS GOD FORSAKEN EARTH IS PERFECT?!?! NO ONE!! So who is to set the standards to perfect then!?!!? Be yourself! EAT! Don't TRY to be perfect, because then you're giving EVERYONE the satisfaction of knowing that they changed you, that they had enough influence to pressure you to do something as stupid as this...

And I'm telling you...people today can be REALLY mean...and once they have THAT kind of power over you, they could use that against you...

I mean...seriously...if trying to be perfect is a trend, why are you trying to be like them..??~

If everyone jumped off a bridge or slit their stupid wrists, WOULD YOU!?

HOPEFULLY NOT! Because smart people don't make stupid decisions that could SERIOUSLY paralize them for ages to come, and anorexia or bulemia has consequences!! And if Smart people make stupid decisions, it's the kind that they learn from , to become smarter!

Besides--it's a fact that anorexia will predispose you to gaining for weight in the future....

And ask most guys what they find attractive in a girl, or their ideal girl, and I can almost guarentee you that they're not going to say, "Some skinny twig with no meat on her bones." It's not the guy's ideal image of a girl! ITS A GIRLS IDEAL IMAGE OF THEMSELVES!!!!Now are you REALLY that obsessed with girls that you're willing to go to the dark side....

I mean come ON! They don't even have cookies!!

It's a myth...i swear....

Now EAT YOU SKINNY LUMP OF BONES!!!
EAAAAAAAAAAT I SAY!

Not to mention it's just plain rude to be rejecting food to become some bone-thin dweeb when there are people that would give ANYTHING to eat and have meat on their bones..i mean have you actually SEEN pictures of the people i'm talking about?!?! If not, you should...

Look at people in concentration camps in the old days..soldiers that starved for weeks fighting for their country....

What reason do you have for starving again??

Oh yeah....

Perfection...

Well get over it...

THERE IS NO ONE PERFECT AND YOU"RE NEVER GOING TO FIND IT!

ALl you're going to get is disappointment..

That--and called an idiot.

I thought this thread was going to be about Erectile Difficulty.

Kalika

hey to whoever started this thread. ive just read all the posts, and no offence to anyone, but ordering her to put on weight is gonna make her wanna do it even more. Did u read what she said about not having control over anything? well if YOU take control of this situation, then SHE no longer has the control she longs for, and will starve herself even more just to get it.

I admit that yes, u do have a slight weight issue, and not eating is very bad for you, obviously.

In the long run, once u start to eat again, u will put on TWICE the amount of weight that you started with, trust me, or look it up.

OR the other option, u will keep starving yourself, get more ill and be put in a hospital where they will FORCE feed you, and then you will also gain more weight, because THEY will control you.

Think about it huni :)

if u ever wanna talk im here

irresistible_999@hotmail.com

"First off i dont want you to try and convince me that not eating is bad. Because its not."

Starving yourself is not bad for you. Thats STUPID. You need to start eating otherwise you're gonna die. If you want to loose weight then try eating healthily, just dont starve yourself. However if you dont eat the alternative is to end up looking completely unattractive and skeletal and then you will get weak bones, be more prone to injuries and eventually your body will then start digesting your muscle because there is no fat on your body. This will mean that you may have heart failure and DIE. So you really think not eating is good for you? Think again. And dont tell me I dont understand, Ive suffered from an eating disorder before.

whoa whoa whoa!!! thats not my batman glass!!
seriously though chick u are small as hell like me i am 5'8" and i weigh 112 and i can tell u that i am way too small!!!
UNDERWEIGHT EVEN!!! do u know how many pills i have to take and what i have to drink in a day just so i wont loose anymore weight??? i struggle to gain and be heatly and u are trying to loose to be what??
PERFECT??? what is perfect?? so bony u look like a skeleton and have no boobs or ass?? cause that is almost what i am and trust me u dont want that!! also find a way to control something other than food.... like chats with your therapist!!! DAMN!!! *angry* the crap i have to go through in a day to stay alive and people are trying to kill themselves.... lucky bastards wish i had that choice just to not care about life.... *storms off*

Even if you only start eating a little more at a time, the dizziness should stop. There are so many more things you CAN control, like the friends you have, or your grades, or anything. If you want to control your weight, then eat healthy and exercise.
~Jaime

ok thanks to the very few of you who didnt make me feel like complete shit.

Obviously from reading this thread you know i had low self esteem. Well i *stupidly* decided to run for class president. Out of about 200 i got 3 votes. One of them was me voting for myself...

so yeah that was a confidence booster.

Hey! I got worse!!

lol!!

I ran for student body president in the 4th grade....I was the only person who voted for myself, lmao!!!!! So obviously, I lost.....and it REAAAAAALLLy sucked for me....so REALLY! Dont' feel bad!!

I also have REALLY low self esteem. If I know that we have drama I will throw up in the morning before I go to school and I will be shaking and terrified if I have to talk in front of the class. Also I get teased quite a bit and have a slight lisp so that doesnt improve things. Even so I now realise that starving yourself doesnt do anything for your self esteem and its sooo not a good idea. Please start eating, even if its only a little bit at a time, and then gradually eat more. Curvy is in fashion at the moment. Skeleton is NOT.

also i am NOT into the whole skeleton look either. But I DO want to be thin. NO I AM NOT STARVING MYSELF TO DEATH. You people act like I dont eat a thing which isnt the case. I'm not THAT dumb.

well obviously i eat SOME. Not a lot... but some!

Ok I tried to help you but really, you obviously dont want help. People like you annoy the hell outta me :)

well too bad that "people like me" annoy you. If i annoyed you that much you guys wouldnt keep coming back to this post if you didnt want to help. Yeah i know it can be hard from an outside veiw...you tell me not to say you dont understand..but guess what? You dont! you couldnt possibly...you arent me, you arent inside my head. So you can't know. I know the things i say sound stupid, hell they are stupid. But I am in so much pain and i couldnt even begin to explain how sad i feel all the time. You think i like living my life like this? Because I sure don't... it's not easy to just turn my life around. I have been trying really hard. Some days are just better than others.. i'm sorry if i blow off everything you say.. but i'm not. I do listen...just sometimes i get mad because i know you guys are right. And it hurts that its so hard for me to change...

Well i hope you understand a little bit better and dont think i'm as supid or annoying...

"If i annoyed you that much you guys wouldnt keep coming back to this post if you didnt want to help"

1.FFS!!!!!! Ive been TRYING to help you. You just dont effin listen. And when I cannot totally understand, I have a VERY good idea of what you're going through, and if you know the things you say are so stupid then why not realise that you have to start sorting out your life now!

"But I am in so much pain and i couldnt even begin to explain how sad i feel all the time."

2. Im sure EVERYONE has felt like this at some point. Its toally normal but you seem to think its just YOU. I myself have had several eating disorders, been abused in all kinds of ways, I wasted a year of my life cutting myself and getting drunk and I almost died when I cut myself too much in the bath one day? So you think I still dont understand you?! Loadsss of people get depressed, especially in their teenage years. You just have to learn to deal with it.

"Because I sure don't... it's not easy to just turn my life around."

3. It may not be easy at first but if you see a professional about it then they can help you and they WILL understand. You're living in a world where its just you on your own. It wont be like that if you see someone and get help! It is posible to change if you believe you can and if you really want to!

Now if you're still gonna be all like Im in so much pain, no one understands me after Ive posted this then Im not even gonna bother talking to you no more.

I am seeing a pyschologist..i have been for almost 2 years.

Listen I'm sorry if i've offened you or anything. I didn't mean to at all. Yes i know that other people are depressed..i know its not just me.

I DO know that i need to turn my life around. I've lost all my friends and pretty much my whole life due to my stupidity. It seems like everytime i start to turn things around something bad happens and i fall back into the way i was before.

I really am trying.....

And i also appreciate you still trying to help me.

One thing i ask.. is please dont analyze every word I say. You're just contradicting everything that i say...

But really, thank you for your time.

Brittany, if I see something you've typed and I dont agree with it Im obviously gonna say something about it. If you've been seeing a psychologist for 2 years then you need to being seeing someone else if you still feel depressed. I hope things get better for you soon, and try and stop this whole eating disorder thing before you go too far :( Im sorry if im a bit snappy with you but I just want you to understand that you can get better :)

I have been ana for about a month. i get headaches a lot and feel like im gonna pass out most of the time. It is taking over my life and I don't know how to stop it. I kind of know its bad, but i want so badly to be perfect. im here to talk ne time if u need it.
-Sami

your dumb...and dizziness and headaches are a side effect of not eating yeah so pop a few asprin or ib profen wait syke you need to eat to get those medicanes to work okay so that rules that out...you could sleep it off, but sooner or later your body will get use to you treating it like crap and the headaches and dizziness should go away until you drop 30 pounds and cause your family to spend thousands of dollars to put you in a rehab center and when they just can't save you, i hope your proud of yourself and all the pain you caused your family and friends....yeah....

p.s.

"I've lost all my friends and pretty much my whole life due to my stupidity"
i like how before that you asked people not to call you stupid but then you admit your stupid...like the hypocrisy...adds to the coolness of your selfish eating disorder

hey brittany, iknow how you feel except im not anorexic in fact nothing has changed for after almost 2 months. me and best friend no longer talk, i will stop when i reach how i want to look, but im not going overboard, i stopped eating junk and now when i do eat like an entire mcdonalds meal it comes straight back up.
i am 5"5 and about 104lbs but i dont think i am getting headaches [i always had them] and i fainted quite a few times but thats probably because of my rapid change in diet. chin up, u sound perfect already :)

no I'm not kori...I'm not the one hurting everyone around me just so maybe somebody someday will like the way I look...which they probably won't anyways because by then you'll be a disgusting skiiny loser who has pushed everyone who ever cared about them away...but thats not the point the point is im not a bitch and im not selfish i care about other people...not just myself...and this girl is selfish and can definatly not argue otherwise

yeah and she dosn't need to give her family and friends worry and loss....she deserves all the attitude in the world

jamie, i agree with kori, she needs a lecture and needs someone to be firm.....but she doesn't need someone acting like a b!+ch, i highly doubt that will help her....

the only help she asked for was advice how to keep being a selfish ugly girl, nor do I want to help her...she needs to get the sh1t kicked out of her for being so selfish...my best friend had an eating disorder and it tore me apart and i think people who destory themselves reserve every right to be bitched and yelled at

i dont want to help...and i'm not trying to help learn how to read...it dosn't matter what led up to it she said she lost friends BECAUSE of it...why the hell would you do that tou yourself? i know, must be stupid...i know what that crap does to your friends and family i dont blame her friends for leaving...and homework dosn't need ot be done self destruction is stupid ecspecially eating disorders cause their so fukcing stubborn and they dont listen to anybody ever cause their self centered...