wanna help me??? this is hard

my boyfriend, doesnt know how to be a boyfriend, cause im kinda his first, so hes not up to speed with me cause hes like my sixth, he got really sick and was out of school for a week, and i fell in love with this other dude *not really but i started liking him, and flirting with him, alot*, and well hes more my speed, ive already made out with him, but hes a pot head and a player i guess, he likes me too, my boyfriend i probably wont kiss him for another 3 weeks, one i dont feel like waiting and two i have to teach him, and i dont fell like it ARG, i like them both alot, what should i do
half of my friends are telling me to dump my bf for the other dude, then the other half is telling me to keep my bf, IT CONFUSES ME o_O

I think that you should decide who you like more and if you like the other guy more, are you willing to take the risk of being with a player and a pothead? If not, then you should stay with your bf. Just think in the long run, who will make you happier... then you should go for that one. And I agree with Marlene on the waiting thing. Waiting isn't that bad. It'll only make it better when it happens.
Love always,
~BJ~

thanks guys you said exactly what one of my best friends said and i guess i agree with you, but then my other best friend says to go with the other guys, course shes only had one bf so yeah THANKS ^_^

I say you don't deserve your boyfriend, he was off school ill and you made out this other guy while he was ill? Yeah .. nice girlfriend.

no i didnt make out with him when he was sick, i made out with this other guy like 6 months ago, before we were going out

Wait for you current boyfriend, give him time,and if the other guy is a pot head @#$& him he's Stupid and not
good for you, you might get in to some trouble or hurt badly... but I can't tell you what to do it's all up to you. Just don't forget whats good for you and fellow your heart.....