19..and 15...Help

  • Megan
    19 years ago

    heyy people..well i like my best friends older brother..hes 19 and im 15.....i don't know what to do.. he knows i like him and..he likes me too and i know hes NOT using me cuz he hasn't tired shit with me yet and we've slept togethre about like 5 timess....

  • Megan
    19 years ago

    not like having sex and shit but like cuddling....What should i doo???

  • Jaime
    19 years ago

    "he hasn't tired shit with me yet and we've slept togethre about like 5 timess"

    That doesn't make sense, but okay. He's probably using you.

  • Dave
    19 years ago

    well alot can be said here about age isnt anything but a number... well thats the case when both people are of age it gets a little more hairy when the ppl are 19 and 15 lets go with this thought
    what would your parents think and or say i mean ur 15 your still at home? under the law any thing would happin he would go to jail now if ya like him you wouldnt want that to happin rite? if you like him you would want him to be happy im sorry i have to post something like this here but i have the luxury of beeing older then most of ya here not saying thats better or worse im just saying i have been thru alot of stuff and i have seen many many things so if you want some advise?? dont do anythingyour young yet give yourself time to grow as a person mentaly, physicaly and emotionly ... ok flame on everyone tell me im old and out of touch

  • Torn
    19 years ago

    cut and dry?!
    but yeh i agree...weird

  • Dave
    19 years ago

    tanks for keeping me in line bob yeah i thought i was old and out of touch but glad to see your older and even more out of touch then me lol yeah i guess its the father comeing out in me but then again i have been bleesed with all boys and wont have to worie going to jail beating up my daughters boy friends

  • kami
    19 years ago

    im young and agree with bob and dave, babe live your life, try 17 first, most guys that are that much older then you but still not that mature feel like since they are older they can control you. im sorry to give ya bad news, i had a relationship when i was 15 and he was 18and people gave me shit about age, 6 wonderful months went by but at the end everyone was right

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    19 years ago

    Sorry lovie, but im agreeing avec Dave Bob & Kami. Why would a 19 year old guy be interested in a 15 year old girl?? answer - meaningless sex. They will tell you all the right things, say they love you, make out they love you, then when you sleep with them they never call you again. I don't mean to be harsh mais huni its true, he's only interested in you for one reason only. Have some dignity and walk away before you do something you'll end up regretting and spend ages crying over because hes used you. Similar to past experience of mine, only didn't get far enough pour sex mais my ex did use me and it hurt a lot, mais i have moved on, and im with somebody more my age now. Stick with guys within your age range and stay away from this 19 year old. The reason you were probably attracted to him in the 1st place is because of his age anyways...stay away i tell you

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    haha Becky youre french arnt yah?

  • Megan
    19 years ago

    lol thanks everyone...NO WE DID NOT HAVE SEX. im not ready for that and..he deffinalty knows that..i've told him...We haven't even Kissed yett...not even like on the check or anything. so i don't think hes only using me for sex...cuz he knows it Ain'ttt happeninggg...im not dumb i've seen how my friends have turned out and personaly i don't want that kind of relationship.

    Thanks everyone :)

  • ღPrEciiOuz~KiiZeZღ
    19 years ago

    i think u should go for it...i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 18 but nothing is going wrong...my parents have met him and they is cool...but if u two like eachother i think u should go for it...don't hesitate...you never know what can come out of it...whats up with this going to jail thing??? its just dumb...if u ask me...thats all i have to say

  • NessaMessa
    19 years ago

    im sorry girl but Bob and Dave are right!! hes a little too old and he can get in a lot of trouble =/ im younger then you and i have enough sense to date guys that are at least close to my age... i dont blame you..its his fault hes just trying to hit it... n your young and havent experienced as much as him..so he probably just thinks youll let him...

  • Megan
    19 years ago

    ok THEY ONLY WAY HE COULD GO TO JAIL WAS IF WE HAD SEX. which i have no intentions on doing so. SO STOP SAYING THAT IM GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM i have my morals...i know theey'ree right. no sex..Yesss

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    19 years ago

    sometimes the age doesnt matter, because hardly no one pays attention so dont worry about. guys think that im 18 but im only 16...i had a guy flirt with me and hes 21! i waited a while to see if it was worth the trouble of getting caught, but it wasnt, but hey each state is different with the age differnce stuff.

    I hope everything works out.
    Peace
    ~babygirl88~