Did I do the right thing?

"some girl told my boyfriend"

How did she learn of this? From you? The conversation between you and your ex is something that should have remained confidential. It didn't concern anyone else.

However, if your bf is so insecure over this, that is not a good sign. You did the right thing by talking to your ex. If you're going to be in counseling, I'd suggest you put your trust in your counsellor and not try to second guess whether her advice is valid.

You did the right thing. I'm with you on the whole everyone should have clouser. I mean...seriously...if you're still hurting from something that he did, then you had all the right to talk to him about it. Do you still have feelings for him? Are you happy with the relationship that you are in right now? If the answer is yes to both, then you did nothing wrong AT ALL, and you need to stop being so hard on yourself.

If your boyfriend can not understand why you did what you did, and wont listen to you, then he's not worth it, and HE'S the one that doesn't care about YOU. I'm serious. If he's going to be that immature and see understand what you did was the best thing for both of you guys, then why bother with him?

Best of luck to you.

From all that you've said, I also think you definitely did the right thing. A clear indication is the fact that you felt much better after the talk with your ex. It's too bad that the other girl messed things up but that wasn't your fault. I hope that your bf comes to his senses and that everything works out okay for you. Good luck!

nah you definately did the right thing... closure is always needed and it has nothing to do with whether you still like your ex of not. i agree with taylor...prob just jealousy atm and i really hope you guys work it out. good luck
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