my BF girls that have gone thru this HELP plz

Confusedd: you are an idiot.

When he says you love him, don't reply, just smile and kiss him. Don't say you love him back if you don't.

Yeah, if you really don't love him don't say you do. You'll only hurt him more in the long run.

a problem you say you have??
if you can't react like happy when he says he loves you, then maybe you might just think you love him.
love is a strong word..
if you don't love him, don't hurt him and keep carrying on with the relationship, cos he will get hurt in the end.

we've only been going out for barely a month, should i be able to tell already if i love him? since neither of us know each other really well, and i care about him alot I just dunno if he loves me or if he's just saying he does

A person can go out with someone for 2 years and finally realise they're in love. RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT ABOUT LOVE! 90% of teenage ones ARENT true love. (this is directed at the other posters).
cowgirlstar you are completely right. just wait.