I need some advice

I have wrote on here before about me having to leave me boyfriend....well he just told me the other day that he had been cheating on me for like 3 months before i left...but then he tells me he loves me....im confused he said he still loves me and that he was just being stupid at the time..do i trust him and give him another chance? Help!!!

I could be wrong but I have a feeling that you are looking for some reinforcement here because you already know the answer to your question.

Whether he says he was being stupid or whatever, there is no excuse for cheating. It is a reflection of poor character. Get over him and then find a real guy with real values who will treat you the way you deserve.

A relationship with your ex would always have the mark of a festering sore that never heals because the memory of what he did would always remain. That's why it's best for you to move on.

Oh-boy. I can't tell you the answer. I can't tell you to trust him or not to trust him, or to give him another chance or not. I can stat my opinions and stories though..

I have to say that what he did was totally wrong. He should not have done what he did, and if he really loved you truely he would have never cheated on you EVER. You don't do that to somone you really love.

My Ex-Boyfriend. Did the same but cheated on me for over 7 months, over the net. I found out by a random thing he told me. He never introduced me as "His Girlfriend" I was always a friend and nothing more. When we were in chats or anything he would tell me not to hang near him or not to flirt. I was like ok...he always said it was so there would be no fights and sicne I knew his temper ment I just agreed to it. Till it started to dawn on me and my friend sent me the conversation her had with my ex's girlfreind the girl he cheated on me with. I was sad and flipped out. After I ended it he got over it with in a few days and told everyone I was as good as dead and he hated me and wanted nothing to do with me ever ever again I was hurt that he got over it so fast.

Just...listen to your heart, do you want to be hurt again? Do you want to find someone who really loves you?

I trust your smart enough to make your own decissions and I am sure you will do the correct thing.

Well thanks for your advice, yes i thought we loved eachother or atleast at the time i did. Maybe i just loved him and he didnt love me back i dont know but it isnt worth crying over anymore. I couldnt trust him nor my bestfriends...it seemed like i was sharing him with my friends and i not knowing about it!!! I have been tho alot with him and have already gave him so many chances but he doesnt seem to care until i find out about what he has done! I think im going to move on i would say we could just be friends but that would just make things harder for me!

Girl im proud of you leaving him you need better than that...we will find good guys one day right!! :) Well hope to hear from ya soon! Thanks xxxxx

He says he loves you but the girl he was with probibally thinks the same. If he cheated on you once theres no telling if hes going to do it again. I would break it off before he does. I know what its like to have your heart broken and I don't want it to happen to you anymore than it already has. You might love the boy but sometimes you have to let go of what you love for whats good for your heart...Hope I helped...MUCH LOVE

♥~Anarchy~♥

Hey thanks for ur advice!

Im trying to let him go but its hard having him in my life every min of every day and now not having him at all. When i havent talked to him in a while i so wanna pick up the phone and hear his voice on the other end but i know if i do that then things will just be harder. Im trying to get over him my heart is very broken and it seems like im just not whole anymore but then i think was i really happy with someone thats going to cheat on me all the time!!!! Well hope 2 hear from all yall again! thanks xxxxxxxxxx