My Friend Is Obsessed

Ok so I have a friend, And she Broke up with her bf last year, But she has developed an obsession for hating him. Even though it was a year ago she still talks about him alot and basically brainstorms ways to make him misrable, I don't think thats healthy. And it's an even bigger problem that I'm friends with her ex. And If I were to invite him to a party i'm having, she wouldn't go. I'm so close to telling her that if she says his name one more time I'm going to snap. but she is my best friend. I've tried getting her a new bf but her standards are SOOO HIGH nothing lasts long, Like her next bf, if she ever gets one, will have to be perfect. So I really need to solve this problem, before I really loose my temper with her. Any advice?

have you talked to her about how you feel about the situation?
i had the same problem last year and it was crazy,
it sounds like even tho she hates him she still likes him and thats why she hasnt gotten a new BF but yea I dunno I would talk to her about it rationally and try to get her to see how she's being and that its not fair to you

I have tried telling her she needs to stop, and she always says she will stop, then she just brings him up again and again. And she definatly doesn't like him.

thank you though

No it's not like that, Like I've done that too, but this is definatly just anry.....he doesn't help the situation by talking about her either. point: This is different then fake hate.

hmm I suppose you would have to know her. She is an extreamist in almost everything she does. I do think it has something to do with not wanting him to be happy.

Obsession with another human being is very, very scary. I'll just leave it at that.

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