I lost it all...

  • not.your.star....
    19 years ago

    Hey I was going out with the most amazing guy. I love him so much! We went out for ten months but I broke it off because he would call me at random times in the day to accuse me of liking someone else, which made me really depressed. He and I are still best friends and kinda friends with benefits. Or at least that is what I think but I am not sure how he feels. What should I do?!?!?

  • fallen angel
    19 years ago

    wh ynot ask him how he feels. try imagining what you would feel if he got a new gf, or how he would feel if you met someone new. if you both truly love each other then you can get past anything, but first he needs to adress any insecurities he may have and trust you. hope you find true happiness, and solve all your problems, sorry im not the best at giving advice.
    good luck xxx

  • JJ
    19 years ago

    friends with benefits?? what exactly does that mean?

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    Generally speaking, I don't believe that continuing on in with kind of "friendship" is likely to lead to anything more meaningful. If he now has all the benefits of physical intimacy with no commitment, why would he want to change that arrangement?