help me please. im really confused. need serious advice

Yes break up with him ...
To be cheated on once I could ~ maybe ~ forgive but 10 times (that's insane) also to be lied to would just put me over the edge .... If someone truly loves you they won't lie to you (maybe about petty things) like no I didn't eat the last piece of cake when they did...
But to treat someone with disrespect is not love and does not deserve love in return ..

If my husband or in your case (bf) cheated once then came and told me ...it would take a long time but I might learn to trust again....But dear God 10 times .......
I would kick his ass to the curb and then step on him....

As far as the brother do you know if he has the same feelings for you ? Because if he is showing feelings for you then he is disrespecting his current girlfriend ... and then you are no further ahead because he might do the same .
Well.... hope my opinion helped although it is just one person's opinion ....

I agree, no one should be put through that pain. As for the brother thing... I understand where that might be comnig from but maybe its that you do love your bf but he's too immature... and his brother maybe a lot like him just... smarter... get it?? Maybe I'm wrong but thats my opinion :)

Break up with your boyfriend. No girl deserves to be cheated on or dumped. You are just burying yourself into a deeper hole that you are not going to be able to climb out of. Once you leave your bf you just have to have faith that you will find another guy (which you will). Every girl deserves a guy who's going to treat her with respect and like she's a princess. Your bf obviously doesn't respect or care or love you. Leave him and stop punishing yourself. You'll find someone. Have a little faith sweetie. XoXo sparkles

Well you could always secretly cheat on your bf with his brother because it probably runs in his family too so his brother will probably cheat on his gf. You guys will get so attached that you will both be able to break up with your bf and he'll brake up with his gf and you guys will live happily ever after.

heya sweetie, when I read that, I felt for you big time, you've been nothing but faithful to the one you love and thts an amazing quality to have :)! Something tells me maybe...i dunno i cud be rong, bt perhaps his brother has that bit of ur bf that u want in him, like say him not cheating or something. Cos you see him with his gf and u see how he treats her right and u want that 2? hope that helped a bit!! stay strong tho. Everyone here is right its up 2 u wt u do about ur bf, tho after everything u've been through, u need to decide whether its time to let go of that pain, or try and fight through it :)
lotsa love
~*~Megs~*~

heya sweetie, when I read that, I felt for you big time, you've been nothing but faithful to the one you love and thts an amazing quality to have :)! Something tells me maybe...i dunno i cud be rong, bt perhaps his brother has that bit of ur bf that u want in him, like say him not cheating or something. Cos you see him with his gf and u see how he treats her right and u want that 2? hope that helped a bit!! stay strong tho. Everyone here is right its up 2 u wt u do about ur bf, tho after everything u've been through, u need to decide whether its time to let go of that pain, or try and fight through it :)
lotsa love
~*~Megs~*~