Cofussion

Ok... I have known this guy for about a year, and this whole summer up until about 2-3 weeks ago we were dating off and on. One night he calls me and tells me he just wants to be friends, cause he realizes that he can other girls, and he doesnt want to keep going on and off with me. i cried for about 4 hours and I even puked.

I have recovered these past couple weeks, and I thought I was over him. We still email eachother, and I never think about him until I open his email. Everytime he mentions another girl, I get jealous. What can I do to stop this pain? What can I do to get over him? I AM SICK OF THIS FEELING!!!

I also hate that I told him everything. Some things I told him I didnt even tell my best friends. It sucks to have a person know everything about you, and then they like dump you outta the blue. I will take as much advice as possiable.
*Deadly Angel*

At least the guy had the decency to be upfront and break up with you before he started started seeing other girls. He didn't cheat on you. So maybe he'll also have enough decency not to blab about the personal matters you told him. As far as getting over him, I'd say the best thing to would be to break off contact with him and try to move on with your life. If you continue to exchange emails and/or have other contact with him, it will just be an ongoing reminder of a painful experience.

Bob is right...a clean break and move on....no self torture.

Ok.. Its not that easy just to stop getting in touch with him. And I know he has hurt me so much, but I still cant stand loving him, and when he arent fighting we have GREAT conversations.

Yeah, he didnt cheat on me. But the night before he told me we were just friends, he got all mad at me because I said we would be better as friends, dont cha think? and he is like no, and started to cry, and I was like OK.. good cuzz neither do I. It's just to weird, and it would be really HARD not to talk to him. I cant just stop emailing him and shit. I am "additcted!"
*Deadly Angel*

omg..no way he really doesnt sound worth it no offence...
i've been in your position so i know it's hard but bob's advice is probably best followed...
at least try...good luck girl i know how hard this is..xoxoxo

when I get confused by guys its mostly when they flirt w/ me and then say they don't like me. It bugs the crap out of me. Cuz I mean if they don't like you then why flirt and lead you on? Retards...

♥~Anarchy~♥

I ♥ Cereal

Yeah, guys are assholes, but everyone loves 'em. And yeah he may not be worth my time, but when we do talk we have good conversations, and he really understands me, but I am not going to only go after him. I am going to let whatever happends... happen. If it doesnt work out then shitty, but then I understand.
* deadly angel*
Is that better then being "additcted"

Yeah. We talked last night and he was totally flirting with me, and calling me baby, but I reminded myself that he is the flrting type, so I gotta remind myself, that he might not like me like that. And I hate when a guy says he loves ya, and u dunno if its as frends or he is in lov wtih you.. confusing.. oh well ... well thanks evveryone for help! i figured out what to do.. and ppl said talking it out doesnt help... lol
*deadly angel*

well i guess its over because he is asking out this 6th grader! haha hes a nerd!
*deadly angel*