Will it work?

  • x-Beth-x
    19 years ago

    I need some help. I hate the word love because in the end it just ends up hurting someone. When I started dating my boyfriend two weeks ago we immediately started saying I love you. Will it work out even though were saying love already? I'm kinda worried...Any ideas?

    ♥~Anarchy~♥

    I ♥ Cereal

  • Brian King
    19 years ago

    most people at your age say they love who ever but they don't mean it.... you'd just sound stupid saying "i like you" to your g/f or b/f

  • littleone14
    19 years ago

    only most ppl at a young age do that. jus tell him that you guys need to stop sayin it till you know you both really mean it.

  • brit
    19 years ago

    all i can say is that if you really love someone, let them know and tell it to them...but if you are just saying i love you because you are together...thats not good because someone could end up hurt.

  • x-Beth-x
    19 years ago

    I let him know b4 we started dating that I wouldn't say I love you until I truely meant it. And then the next think I knew I found my self saying it. Yes I do bealeve I love him. The only thing I didn't like was him talking about getting married and stuff like that. I'm not ready for it and I know he isn't. I explained it to him and he respected my opinion and stopped. Thanx 4 the advice =)

    ♥~Anarchy~♥

    I ♥ Cereal

  • aaron c s
    19 years ago

    u dont love eachother truly. sorry to say. all it is is puppy love and it wont last very long most likely. there still is a chance that it will though. love takes time. its more than just a feeling. ppl wo think its just a feeling are young and havent experienced love at its fullest. best of luck to u and ur bf though.

  • Isabel
    19 years ago

    well make sure that you both really mean it cause i've been there and the guy i was with ended up dumping me after all the times he said i love you i hope it works out like its working out right now!!!!!!! *XOXO*

  • x-Beth-x
    19 years ago

    I love him. Thats it. You might think we don't but ok. Yeah we'll probably break up. Cus I HIGHLY doubt I'm going to marry him or something like that I mean JEEZ. But until then, I love him and always will :D

    ♥~Anarchy~♥

    I ♥ Cereal

  • Shædow Poet
    19 years ago

    Ignorance is bliss.

  • Natalie
    19 years ago

    I told my boyfriend I loved him after 4 weeks and we've been together now for 2 yrs! Of course it can work as long as you keep you're love alive.... my friends and I have a saying that when in a relationship "the first couple of weeks are like the honeymoon and after that you're already married."