I need some advice!

Lately my boyfriend has been acting really strange. He's more angry, irritable, and all around meaner to me.. He also spews out random mean things to random people.. And he's been trash-talking my friends.
He doesn't really act the way he does anymore, and he's been really.. Distant/busy lately. He also really acts like he could give a crap..
He's wanted to hurt himself more and more each day.. :/

I don't know if I should be 'suspicious' of anything, but.. I don't know x-x What should I do!?

I really love him, and I don't want to break up with him.. And whenever I try to talk to him about these things, he gets angry and we end up fighting with me crying and begging for forgiveness for no apparent reason..
It's really starting to hurt me.. REALLY hurt me..
What should I do?

hmmm i dunno but sounds to me like he cheated on you or something and that is why he starts to cry and beg for your forgiveness. He prob. thinks that you know and he is hurting himself for doing that or something but i dunno thats just what i think.

~ItalianStallion A.K.A. Joe~

seems like he's just been having a hard time,and losing you would make it worse. try to make him know you'll be there for support. don't say he cheated until you have an ounce of proof. to me it just seems he's had it hard.

i agree 100% with ^^^^^^. accusing does not good b/c hat could damage things even more...

He doesn't cry and beg for forgiveness, I do. Like I said, he acts like he doesn't give crap and yeah, when I try to talk to him about how I Feel he gets pissed and we end up arguing.

The worst he's had was with his exes ( who treated him like crap ) I've really done so much for him, including give up almost all my friends, time with my family. I never talk to him as if I disliked him, and I never say mean things, no matter how angry he gets. All I do is cry.

well maybe the best approach right now isnt to go to him about his problems. don't break up with him or anything, unless you find out he's cheating of course...but give him space and don't bring it up or try and figure out whats wrong. he'll come to you when he's ready to let you know about it, and he'll appreciate the time to think about it himself. no guy likes to be nagged, and even if you arent nagging, just asking him might piss him off. maybe if you back off a bit he'll start coming back and talking to you once he realizes that he really misses the concern. i dont think he really knows what he has right now. just give it time and good luck!!!!!!!!!1

Well, he's been telling me "F**k you" over and over, and he's been leaving me quite a bit. x-x;
Gaah what do I do! I really don't want to be away from him :/

I pretty much agree with InMyWorld. I think there is some issue unrelated to your relationship that is causing distress to your bf. I also think that he is unable or unwilling to effectively deal with the source of the problem, whatever it is. That is probably what is causing him to act angry and disconnected. I would keep letting him know that you are there for him and you care for him. Other than that, I would follow the advice above from InMyWorld. I hope that with time it will all work out well for you.

I told him that I'd always be there for him if he needs me, and that he knows how to reach me if he ever needed help with anything.
He said "yeah right" and then said "Don't fucking 'Baby' me" ( Cuz I call him Baby ) and he said "Fuck you" after. :/

"He said "yeah right" and then said "Don't fucking 'Baby' me" ( Cuz I call him Baby ) and he said "Fuck you" after. :/"

That's totally disrespectful and inexcusable. I can understand how hurtful that must have been.

Maybe you should set a deadline for yourself to establish the length of time you are willing to wait for him to come out of this. I know you said you don't want to break up with him. But if it drags on for long, the continual emotional toll on you may not be worth the value of maintaining this relationship.

"He said "yeah right" and then said "Don't fucking 'Baby' me" ( Cuz I call him Baby ) and he said "Fuck you" after. :/"

him saying this is starting to make me think that he is mad at you for some reason that you are unaware of...maybe he heard a rumor or something about you and another guy and he's waiting for you to confess something...do you hang around other guys w/o him or talk to other guys on the phone and stuff? that can start a lot of rumors and maybe he thinks theres something going on...

this is where you have to be caring, yet firm.
let him know he can't talk to you that way, and if he's going to, he better have a damn good reason.
verbal abuse is still abuse.

if he's going to be cold towards you, you deserve to know why, even if it might have to do with you...im not saying that it does, but lots of stuff can get mixed up when you're a teenager.

He must be going through some problem, I think you should investigate the full situation before reaching to any conclusion!!!