WELL, I HAVE THIS GUY...

that asked me out...He lives maybe 30min. away and we met on allpoetry.com. Well, he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said yes after about a month of us talking online and on the phone. I'm 14 and he's 16. He broke up with me because I was too young...well, 3 weeks later, he said he was stupid and should have never broke up with me. So, he asked me out again. I like him soo much that I said yes again. Well, after a week and 2 days, he said he was stupid for the first break up(again) and that I was the one for him and he loved me. The next day he broke up with me saying, "I'd really like to meet in person before we take this any further." and then the next day, he said he never really loved me, that how could you love somebody in a week? I "Informed" him that we were goingout for a week but, we've known each other for four months. And, he never said anything after tha...what should I do? what should I say??? I need advice. Please?!?

yea I know, But, I like him a lot...He said all he wants to do it meet and then Everything will fall into place or something like that. Idk but, I like him a lot. What should I say to him to make him wonder and not know what to say??

Things don't normally just "fall into place." Things happen because someone makes them happen.

If you two live only 30 minutes apart, why, during 4 months time, haven't you 2 arranged an opportunity to meet in person? And how could you be "going out" if you haven't met?

IMO online relationships don't have a very promising future if your intentions don't include meeting each other fairly soon after you get acquainted.

If you DO meet him, meet in a public place, make sure you tell him to carry a red rose or something so you know who he is. But BE CAREFUL, take a friend with you, maybe, because like Malfist said, he might not be who he seems.

We tried to go to the movies and stuff but, I couldn't go cuz I never had money. I do now, so maybe next weekend we can go do something. I am bringing my friend Nat with me. She's awesome. And, I asked some people if they knew him and some said yea He's a pretty awesome guy and stuff like that. I talk to him on the phone and I've seen pic.s of him. We were going to go to the movies or something. And no, Jerome, he is not a 59 year old woman! lol He is a Junior at County High! lol