dilema

okay. i ahve a dilema and I need advice. my ex and I went out for almost 2 years. we broke up last June. i was sad and depressed the whole summer and i thought i could never get over it but, of course, i did, well i thought i did. it is now october and up until recently i thought i was over her. i have a girlfriend right now who i've been going out with for a little over a month. i think i love her but im not sure yet. its too soon to tell. well my dilema is that i've been having feeling lately for my ex. i see her occasionally around school and such and every time I see her i can't help but think of how much I want her back in my life but, i have my current girlfriend who is the best girl ever. i just adore her. what should i do? is it normal for me to have feeling about me ex even though we've been apart for 4 months?

i think it is normal, considering you were together for nearly 2 years you can't expect to get over your ex that quick. I was with my ex for 8 months and it took me like a year to get over him!! Maybe its too soon for you to have another relationship with somebody else, until you know what you want because to me, right now it sounds like you're torn between two girls..

The heart can't be shared without hurting somebody, be it you - or them.

either you are over your ex, or you are not - is it really fair on this new girl who you probably claim to love, to then dream of your ex?

It's normal, but you need to realise you have probably lost your ex - and need to get your heart to think as logically as your brain is now.

but i was over her, i never thought about her or anything there was no feeling, until about a week ago. it just all of a sudden came back cause my gf did something that reminded me of my ex. i dont want to not be with my current gf cause i like her too much. so do u guys think ishould break up with my gf till i can honestly say that i'm over my ex, which i thought i was until recently?