why i do i still talk to u and say i love you?

alright me and my ex still talk on the phone and say i love you but im real confused, cus i dont know rather to let him go and stop talking to him on the phone or keep talking to him!!! he tells me that hes just seeing this girl to get me off his mind but is that just an excuse for him to be able to see someone? I just dont know what to do anymore cus im sick of talking to him on the phone acting like everything is alright! and really im my heart is breaking even more inside, I need ur advice so please post it! Thanks

Seems like he likes the idea of having someone else and also having you to fall back on if the proverbial shit hits the fan. Then again, I don't know your full history together to make a certain judgement.

Hun, its called a break up because its broken. It's done. OVER. You really gotta stop this. Its hard, but its all about letting go. Everything will be okay in the end hun.

i think he is using you a bit like in case his recent girlfriend dumps him he knows he always has you to come back and THAT'S WRONG! tell him either you stop saying i love you's or he leaves her ... i mean you can talk on the phone as friends but NOTHING MORE

did you move away or something? i have 2 thoughts...
1) you should forget him if he wants to forget you.. he's seeing someone else, and you should do the same.
2) uhm... i lost my trail of thought... oh yeah, if you still [love] him then you should tell him to break up with his current g/f and get back with him.

who broke it off in the first place?
-flip

well tell him how you feel and if you are tierd of talking to him than stop talking to him i had the same thing with this guy well my ex but i finally told him how i felt and now we only talked only 1 a month and not often and it worked yup well wish you da best

ive been there too and i know that it hurts..i didnt want to let him go i wanted to be with him so bad i just wanted to hear his voice i wanted him to tell me he loved me thats all i wanted it only made me want to be back with him more...in the end it hurts worse i promise you this...and if hes with this girl...no dont do that to yourself cuz hes the one that ends up happy...and you end up miserable... he has you and this gurl and you end up with nothing...you dont deserve that nobody does