Advice Please!

Okae i need some help on what to do...me and my b-f have been together for a while now and i love him i do but i dont think im in love with him ne more when we kiss i find ways to ammuse myself i get bored i look out the widow stuff like that, he knows that there is something wrong with me he said the way i look at him has changed...the way i kiss everything...i used to be so into our kisses i could hardly open my eyes i used to think we'd be together forever...i couldnt even look at other guys more less flirt...its all changed i seldomly get them butterflies they are almost gone i dont know what happend am i bored? should i break up with him i know that he loves me with all his heart i dont want to hurt him but i dont think im into this any more...this was his last chance we have been through ALOT...so after this chance this is it no more breaks i dont even think that we will be friends after this time...but what if i miss him? i cant make any more mistakes? help PlEaSe!

well if you dont think you love him anymore, just end it...it'll hurt him more if you contiue with this Charade. if thats not the case..and you still do love him, try spending some time apart, take break see whats out there. if none of this works, than the only thing i suggest is talking to him...which i know you dont want to do. i hope everything works out for the better.

i do try to talk to him...kinda...i bring it up its kinda like he doesn't want to know...i think he really knows what actually happening but he doesn't want it to he dont want to face it...so he chooses to cut me off when i try to talk about it and by that time i have already talked my own self out of it...

ty for advice but he did the deed for me i was walkin wit some guy...its done...and i do miss him...actually i dont know what im guna do without him right now...nobody is guna add up to what he was ill miss the little things the most...i was confused in my first post now i know exactly what i want and now its gone...well any one got advice for the easiest way to get over a break up? i sure do need it...lol although there is no easy way...but still any ideas?

Well it looks like he knew that you have been thinking about breaking. So he felt it'd be easier to end it easier on himself.

Things you could do is to just do whatever comes to mind. Anything that will take your mind off things. If this happens again next time with someone else, try to tell him your feelings on where you stand. If he's a good guy he'll understand and wait for you to see where you are.

yeah it hurts i know how you feel, i feel the pain of it right now thinkin bout it, yeah it really does hurt, but you'll get over it. somehow, sometime. have you tried talking to him about it. ask him if you want to hang out as friends and see if maybe the feelings come back when guys hang out, maybe you just werent sure that you were in love, i know how that feels

i still love him i love him with all my heart but im guna be okae...im goin to keep tellin myself that and i will be im guna miss him so much...i cant be his friend, its just not the same if we became friends i would have to be there to listen wen he fell for someone else the way he fell for me and i would get to hear every little detail i cant take that right now...i dont know what im going to do wen he finds some one else...its going to hurt so bad but im going to be alright...ty for advise but i dont think talkin about it will help...i dont what to go back to him he im tired of the pain...i loved him yes but he didnt exactly treat me how i deserve to be treated i no it sounds conceded but im going to start actually, noticing whats best for me im so tired of gettin hurt...

excuse me im not little and you have no right to really call me that wen you dont know me you have no idea the way i love him so dont contadict my fealings when you really do know and no tell me what i want to do or what to do...demands arent advice so use sould skip all the advice post because you suck at it!! ..."little girl"....hah