long distance relatonship HELP

  • Haven
    19 years ago

    I am in one, we are coping fine, just make sure to stay in touch and see eachother as often as possible, me and my bf has been together 6 months and now he has decided to move here, he is english and I'm norwegian so he won't understand a word

  • shadowlight
    19 years ago

    i was in one for about a year. in the end though we broke up due to the distance. then again...it was over 300miles! i know a few people who are in long distance relationships and coping fine, i think that as long as you keep in touch and see each other as much as possiable it will work out fine

  • Tiny Reader
    19 years ago

    I'm in an on off long distance relationship. What I mean is he goes away for a few months on end, then comes back. It's over 900 miles away. When he's away I miss him so much, but what keeps me going, is knowing he'll come back to me. And I trust him. It works for me, but it's hard. Maybe I wouldn't be able to cope without that bit of hope though. You just have to try and see what happens. If you love each other, I'm sure it will work.

  • *< Deadly Angel >*
    19 years ago

    Hey.. I had a long distant relationship. But we never saw each other. We met once and then he moved. We exchanged numbers and he called me every night. We even started dating. We dated on and off for a year and I know how hard it is to have a long distance relationship. The only thing I can say is if your love is strong enough and its meant to be then it distant doesnt matter. I know alls you can think about is her but you just gotta think.. Could she be the one? Do I love her?
    The only thing you can do is just dream of her...
    *Deadly Angel*

  • Lemma
    16 years ago

    I've been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now. I used to live in England and my boyfriend and I had been together for 8 months when I moved to Virginia but we decided that we would try and make it work. 6 months down the line and we're still going strong. I'll be moving back to England to go to university in just over a year and I really think we can make it. Of course we have good and bad days and the bad days are REALLY bad. But at the end of it all we still love each other and that's all that matters.

    The way I deal with it is by thinking about the enxt time we'll see each other or looking back over all the amazing times we've had together. Talking to him every day helps a lot as well. I think long distance realtionships can totally work, so long as you're willing to put the effort in.

    Good luck :)

    xXx

  • Marc Ortiz
    16 years ago

    I had a long distance relationship before. and all I can say is it's really difficult. But if you really love her you need to trust her and also have patience and of course love her with all your heart.

    If she really loves you too it should work out. Distance is nothing in love.

    (Correct me if I'm wrong)

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    One word. Trust. Pieces.

  • Allie
    16 years ago

    I met my boyfriend over the internet last may. We became friends and we just, as some people say, 'clicked'. We dated over the summer, and when school started up again. And then I found out that he had been cheating on me the last 2 weeks. But then he 'cralwed' back, and I guess I found forgivness, and I took him back 2 months later. We are both happy. He lost part of my trust, so I know his parents, some of his friends, and he tells me everything that he does that day. I know it seems like I'm controlive(sp?), but we both love each other, and he seems to think that it's good this way too. :) We play truth alot, to get to know each other better, and sometimes there's a good game of one-on-one truth or dare. I don't have a web cam, since my computer's so slow, but we talk on the phone and on IM. It's tough when you can't see them every day, but I'm willing to bet that it's worth it in the end.

  • Beautiful Forever
    16 years ago

    The only way to get through it is to trust each other. If you trust her, and she trusts you... eventually you'll be able to be with each other for the rest of your lives. I know how hard it is to not see them, but think of the suspense you're building. Imagine how AMAZING it will be when you finally can be together after having to wait SOO long for it.

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Yeah try writing letters, webcamming, emailing fotos all the time, making movies for each other and emailing them. send presents and make more time to tell them u love them. make her something. i dunno theres lots of things to do

    xx