rape and sexual attackings

  • ~* Joyful *~
    20 years ago

    hey not meaning to be over personal or anything but has any been sexually attacked here? if so what do you do to get over the pain? sorry if its too personal

  • Ashley Morris
    20 years ago

    Hi, I have been through something like that. It does cause pain. You'll get over the pain. But you never get over the actual thing. Nicola is right. Writing poetry does help. It gives you a chance to express your feelings and to tell whats inside. If thats what you want to do. If not, you can talk to me at sylvesteram2001@yahoo.com or sylvesteram2001@aol.com. I'm will listen and help in anyway possible. I don't know if I'll be much help because it happened to me when I was 7 and 8. Then not to long ago someone close to me tried it. If you want me to explain I can or you can check out some of my sad poems. I will try to help. But I don't know if I'll be able to help too much. Anywayz, I'm here.

    Ashley

  • ~* Joyful *~
    20 years ago

    Hey thanx.. i have only written one poem about what happened.. it wasnt too serious.. i was raped when i was 6 or 7 but i cant really remember that as much as what my grandfather has done to me.. now he just stares at me alot... i dont know how to tell my family because im scared i will get in trouble.. do you have any ideas for me?

  • Madison
    20 years ago

    Hey i was "sexualy attacked" by my babysitter when i was really young, but i still remember it, and i dont think i can really do anything about it anymore, i know that my parents know but we dont really talk about it much, but the hardest part is getting over the memories of it. And writing poetry does really help, its a healthy way to let out your anger

  • ~* Joyful *~
    20 years ago

    Thanx for the help.. i was raped when i was younger and my family knows about that but my brother told all of his friends and they all teased me about it.. i dont get why that is funny.. and i was molested until i was about 13.. does anyone know a way to calm yourself down when you start to feel like someone is going to hurt you like that again? i know that when some guys look at me i get a bad feeling about them but they turn out to be REALLY nice guys..

  • Manders
    20 years ago

    I am sorry to hear about what has happened to you.. it 's something I never wish apon anyone..

    I too have been rapped. People say why didn;t you do something. And i have always said if that ever happened to me I would kill the guy.. but when you are in that situation you are in such shock you don't know what's going on.

    Mine was with a guy I liked a lot.. I am over it now, but when I see him I know it will all come back. Nothing can change what happened to me. It's something I will never forget.. But have to move on with my life.

    Listen Never let someone bring you down with them... Be strong and deal with it day by day... This person who did this to you knows what they did was wrong. Let them live the rest of there life knowing what they did..

    take you time with people. You will learn to trust again.. Just don't bring yourself down.. keep strong and know that you will be better soon.

    If you need anything else.. messege me on this.. and I will email you or something

  • cyera
    20 years ago

    ive been there too... and he "was" one of my best friends and it happened 2 days ago. i cant get over it...

  • Just Val
    20 years ago

    I edited it sorry..........

  • Dawn Manna
    20 years ago

    i was sexually molested for 4 years and i still cant get over it even though he is in jail and i have had all kinds of hospitalizations and shit like that...

  • Jeffreys Girl
    17 years ago

    So yeah... i was just raped 2 hours ago and i dont know what to do. last time i told they didnt believe me.. i just dont wanna go through everything again. i even knew the guy and i go to school with him...... WHAT AM I GONNA DO???