Death, are you scared?

Okay here the thing everybody is always talking about wanting to die but I am terrified of death. It is one of my worst fears, anbody else?

Nope i'm not scared at all...^^ just like the person above me said...i'm acutally excited i wanna know what it would be like after death as well. And when its a persons time to die...then they go. Meh....yea i'm not scared. =D
~Luvz~
~Angie~

I'm not affraid of death, but I'm not looking forward to it either. I know, that one day I will die, since death is a part of the life sicle. So when my time comes, I'll justgo in peace.

Tim

nope..not at all

lol..shadow rain!!
i know what you mean..but im more curious..we wont physically know what's on 'the other side' anyway...
hopefully it's a place that makes you feel more alive than life itself...

I welcome it with open arms. And Im glad Im not the only one whos excited too, I mean- Im an atheist so it leaves it to even MORE speculation.

Im excited, i mea once your dead, you probably cant feel, imagine how that would be- just not feeling...not being? You wouldnt have to go through the pains of life and whatnot.

If anything, as weird as it sounds, Im terrified of life, and what it'll bring me or what I'll do with it. Its true. The thought of death being the ONLY thing I know for sure and having it guaranteed for me, comforts and reassures me.

Not at all, I cannot wait to leave this place, I hate it here!

-*-Cherri-*-
V_V

v.vzZ

nope not afraid at all.....i have been wishing for it ever since i was 5...........

totally. but only if death means not-existing. non-existence scares the hell out of me. I think I'd rather be in hell than not exist. and the whole buddhist concept of existing as something else that you can't understand, I glean the same "non-existant" message. i also fear loss. i'm selfish that way. but then, as frightened of death as I am, I'm also fascinated by it.

I'm not really scared... more curiouse like others had said. I'm only scared of killing myself. I don't know why. I backed out so many times.

Savannah.

I dont fear death.I just fear what happens when we go (the unknown)

well, i kinda beat that one a little because i know that whatever i did will be treasured when i die, that the one i love will know i died loving them, my friends will cry and always remember me, and that if God loves us he is sure not to hurt us if we love him... plus i already prayed about my friends so that even if some of them dont beleive in God that they won't be punished because it's not their fault... they were just born into diff religion....

besides, i hope that when i die i go to heaven (my version) where everything i want will be there and everything that's useless at truth will not come along. i want to die in either an honored way or in a tragic, beautiful accident...

also, my heaven will have all my dreams in it that i want, filled with my thoughts... and most importantly only my GOOD childhood memories. i am eager to know what happens, but i have to remember to live life to the fullest... after all, we only live it once and then it's gone... i wish i could live my life over, but then i realise i wouldn't be quite the same.

"Heaven is different for all of us."
Rainy

Also, I'd like to die and be put in some fairytale story by accident, because my life is like a fairytale except with a lot of tragedies...

I fear my children and husbands death more than my own ..
I don't know what I'd do without them ...
I also fear getting old before I do death ...
And believe me I'm quickly getting there ..LOL
I don't want to see the days when everything starts so sag ....

Of course I'm scared.. there may be nothing beyond life, we may loose our memories and start over again in another life form or another human, we may go to heaven, we may go to hell and we may go nowhere!!! i think its scary, but also sort of intriging

im not afraid to die. its not like im leaving anything behind really....the only part of what im scared of dying is leaving him here alone..i wouldnt want him to do that to me, and he told me he didnt want me to do that to him,so we made a pact that if one of us dies,we wouldnt be scared and we'd stay strong. so no, im not scared to die.

I fear my sons death more than anything but I guess my hangup is the not knowing what comes I want to know what happens next. Is that bad?

I'm very afraid of death... I have lost a lot of people that I have loved... three of them this year... So I've been thinking about death alot. And I sit here hoping that they are in heaven, and hoping that there really IS a heaven. I guess I am afraid of not existing. If I exist, in heaven or hell, then that's fine by me, just as long as I still exist. But mostly I'm afraid of the people I love dying... I hate the feeling, I hate knowing that we all are gonna have to leave one day... But hopefully, theres a heaven where we can all be together again. Know what I mean?

i WANT to leave things behind so people will remember me :) i just dont wanna leave my... well, everything... :( i love my friends, i cant leave them!!! and my memories, oh i had such a blurry childhood...

Death is a saviour.

it's weird i cant even comprahend dying let alone being scared of it.
it would be immpossilbe to imagine what it would be like because every image, thought, or conception of what it would be like wouldn't exist if you were dead.
im not religous actually i am agnostic but thats beside the point; people who belive in life after death would probaly be looking forward to it, or curious. personally i dont think about death i only think about life,

I'm afraid of death. The whole, if there's nothing there. Being nothing. Or being part of something greater. Having no memory of my life before. That scares me.

If it was like how Dante described it in his divine comedy I'd welcome it as a grand adventure...but it's hard for me to see it that way.

Im afraid of killing myself, dying because i've failed but I am not scared about dying from a natural cause because everyone dies sometime and you just have to expect it.

nope im joing the military

im not afrasid of death itself, but i am afraid of leaving everything behind, the idea of death is exciting ya know to me it sjust like a change, i actualyl wanna die extremely painfully just because then when you die all that pain is gone and it slike a big relief, a big relief i have never had,

lots of love
*~*Becky*~*

i don't want to die because i am afraid that when whatever happens when we do, i can't control it. when ive cut, or taken drugs or done crazily dumb things i controlled it, but when i die i am going to lose that control and its all going to be over. and thats what i can't handle. losing control.

I don't have a fear of dying.

When it happens, it happens. It's meant to be.

I do not fear death. I have come very close to death several times in my life and even had an out of body experience last Christmas when I came the closest to death I have ever come...weird watching them do surgery on you from above. Anyway, live life everyday as if it were your last. Tell those you love and care about, how you feel, everyday and you will have no regrets and no need to fear death.

As for living.....there are days that bothers me more than death.

As far as I'm concerned if I die I die.

I'm famed at school for saying "dont eat healthily, you'll die anway". I have a slight problem which means I cant feel much physical pain. But Im not fearless. I'm terrified of other people and crowds.

Note how good I am at changing the point halfway through saying something.

Luv Mr Scarlet xxxxxxxxxxxx

i'm not even phased by death,
but i'm scared i'll go before i finally get to tell the one i love that i am truly sorry for what i did...
and that i am sorry to everyone i have ever hurt!
i dont want to go unless all the pplz i love know that i do care about them!
luv em

I'm not afraid of death. It's very natural. You shouldn't be afraid of something that awaits you. You're going to face death sooner or later, so I don't think it's a good idea to fear it. Plus, I'm interested to see what's on the other side. Aren't you?

~ Tina

Well, i can't say that im not afraid of death in one way or another, but im also really curious to see what happens to us when we die. 'Death is lifes last great adventure'

Im not afraid of death, but I dont want to die either. :)

Im not scared of death at all...never have been
To me its just another thing i havnt yet experienced and that frustrates me
Though i enjoy my life at times
This is normal i think
x

im not scared 2 die. im scared of what it would do to my family if i did tho.

I'm not really scared, though I think I should be.
I don't beleive in god and all that stuff... so what happens if I die.. Would that just be it?
well, yeah, I think of death a lot.. not in the way as in I can't wait for it to come, I just think about it.
humm, I guess I don't want to hurt the people that might care about me, and I don't want to live in pain. It's kind of a bittersweet feeling. But scared, no, not really

yanno what you all should watch? hehe , Peter Pan! he's the child that didn't want to gro wup because he wanted to enjoy life for as long as he could. And all the way through it, he never actually feared death, he feared only growing old and becoming unappreciative of life. In his words,
'Death will be an awfully big adventure'
I mean no matter what's on the other side, if you've stayed here long enough, u'll have this life to remember, and the other side to start witha clean slate and be free of everything. On the other hand, if there really is no 'other side' then we will all die and , well quit existing. we wont think about how we died or if it was time or anything like that. Why throw life away, and why be scared of death?

I'm scared of death. I never used to be but I think I got influenced by people and when I was younger I used to read up on NDE's and stuff.

Double post whoopsies.

Not afraid of dying, more sad of not being able to be with the people who mean so much to you. No one should be scared of it. It happens everday and its always around you, you can't fight it or make it not happen, its bound to happen so you might as well accept it.

death, where you cant hear people bitching, you dont have to worry about anyone or anything, and you will evenualy meet up with all ur loved ones one way or another

whats not to love?