What do I do?

  • Audrey
    19 years ago

    OK. I have this boyfriend, Jourdan. And my best friend, Mandy, is really close friends with him. Whenever its us 3 she always has to be next to him and talking to him. Then she told one of my other friends that she didnt like us going out because I talked to him more than i talk to her and it was like losing her 2 best friends. I'm not sure what to do about it. Mandy has done this to me before. I told JOurdan about it but I havent told Mandy because I'm scared that she will get mad at me and I being mad at my best friend. But then again she never even wanted us to go out. A bunch of people keep telling me that she likes him. I'm so confused!! please help me!!

    Audrey

  • amber
    19 years ago

    It does sound like she likes him
    My friend does the same things
    She acts like she doesn't care about him like that
    but she really does
    Its the way girls are

  • Paige
    19 years ago

    yeah it really does sound like she likes him. you should talk to her about it, if you two really are truly best friends then there really shouldn't be any problem and she will understand. well good luck x3

  • Jesse Ray
    19 years ago

    and the moral of the story is: 3's a crowd.

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    Maybe she's acting out of envy. You could tell her that her friendship means a lot to you but you feel hurt and offended when she tries to interfere in the relationship between you and your bf. After you talk to her if she still continues to do it then that would indicate she isn't much of a friend.

  • Audrey
    19 years ago

    hey thanks guys it really helped. Ill post what happens tomorrow after I tell her and stuff. Thanks again!!

  • ღPrEciiOuz~KiiZeZღ
    19 years ago

    oooh...u r sooo right...i mean a friend should support ur relationship ur ur boyfriend not tey to come between you two...thats just wrong...but in some cases u should choose ur friend ova the boyfriend but this ain't one of those moments so confront her then drop her...cuz she aint' worth it

  • Audrey
    19 years ago

    But its hard to drop my best friend. I mean we've been friends for like 5 years. We do everything together. Then again you have a point. She should be supportive and deal with the fact that he likes me and not her. And if she gets mad when I confront her then I guess shes not a really good friend, right?