please help

ok
heres the thing
I like this guy but I cant get togetha with him b/c hes like 4 yrs older then me and stuff but i really really like him and we've been friends for like 3 yrs
i even broke up with my bf b/c i kept comparing him to Ryan the guy i like
so I felt bad and my ex bf loved me and i didnt b/c of Ryan So I have no clue what to do
Plz help

lol

hey
who cares if the guy is only 4 years older than u, the fact is, u love him. if society doesnt approve of it, then screw society, they dont control ur emotions. just ask him out.

ya ur right i shouldn't care what other ppl think about it
but we both do
he doesn't want to get in trouble either
b/c my parents
don't like it
so i cant
just more problems and they all suck

16 & 20? well since you've been friends for years, I would say it's probably safe to say that he's not using you or anything...but do you think he loves you?

If you love him, your parents will have to learn to understand... you can't control who you fall in love with.

*hugs*

I dont think hes using me
I do think he loves me he told me he did
And i know i love him
Ya my parents will have to deal

Sweetie age is nothing but a number. And 16 and 20 isn't that much of a difference. And your probably just as mature as he is since girls matures faster than guys. But I say go for it!

But sometimes you do have to let your feelings decide for you. You cant always control them and what guys think is right their heart might not think or feel the same thing. You can't control how you feel and girls do mature faster then guys and you are agreeing by sying thatt guys really don't listen with there heart . That they tell theemselves they don't want something when they really do. It's not a huge difference but it is pretty big. But oh well . When you want something soo bad you will not stop trying to get it. Maybe I'm wrong but to me I sound right.

What do ya think?

- Age doesn't matter. I dated a guy that was 2 years younger than me for a while and it kinda worked. Anyways go for it! If he likes you and he's 4 years older than you who cares? Give it a try... -

-♥-Anarchy-♥-

Ya I know I should go for it but my parents will not let me and If i do then they will want nothing to do with me. So I'm just scared about what they will say. But then again I could stay with Ryan. I don't know I'm not sure. I'm just scared and I dont want to do the wrong thing.

let me tell you something and trust me first one thing i should tell you be sure ur friend is thinking the same as you well his feelings and if he is tell him but if he is not dont talk to him as ofetn as you do because everytime you go out with somebody new ryan will always be in your head and heart and trust me the saying that they say is true u leave the person who u like for the person u love and they would do the samething to you

I know Ryan does like me and I know he feels the same. I just don't know what to do. I do think I will always tink of him when I'm going out with someone new. And that I'll always compare them. Is that wrong?