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  • Michael
    19 years ago

    K, now at the begginign of summer school I met this guy and he is gay( kinda obvious from barly any male friends, tight clothes, girly voice etc.) He was the first guy I ever liked. I would always look at him cause he was so cute. Now I get to high school, and everytime I look at him(he never caught me, I was casually looking) he was starring at me. I thought it was a coincidence, but for the last two months, I caught him starring at me 12 times! Maby more if I hadn't checked as much. Even when we walk down the hallway, he looks away from me like hes embarressed or something. Now I like him and if im correct he likes me, but i don't know what to do...Plz help...

  • amber
    19 years ago

    ok your a guy right?
    well u should know that he does like you
    talk to him
    my cuzin likes this guy and he duz the same thing
    he duz like u but probly too shy
    do u know who his frends are? well it could be them too
    maybe he cares a lot about what they think too much
    Cuz thats the way the guy who my cuzin likes is
    he cares about what his frends think too much and his frends dont like my cuzin

  • Michael
    19 years ago

    well actually I met his friends and they r awsome. We r good friends ourselfes, but I had never talked to him...so yah...

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    awww how cute!!!!!!

    I know exactly how that feels.....

    There's this reaaaaally cute guy at my school...and I never think he notices me. Never because he's always listening to his music and detached, handsomely, from reality. His eyes just are so far away that when he's looking at my direction, i continue to stare at him because I know he can't see me. Well, i don't think he does. Our eyes lock, but he never knows it. I've had it happen to so many times the cutest things have started to happen.

    I know he has a dark, hazel eyes with a twist of blue. I know he doesn't smile unless he's with his friends. His hands are always tucked neatly in his pants pockets and he strides so gracefully. But his expression is ALWAYS the same. It amazes me that he can be so far away and still know when to turn and how to be so angelic. I've only ever said a few things to him before. And each time I was TOO in shock, too scared, that I said the most retarded things that made me look like an idiot.

    He plays the guitar like a god. He's been playing forever, and I've only been playing for less than 2 years. I've basically been teaching myself, but I do know a lot. But my guitar needed to be tuned, and that's the one thing i cannot do on my own...I need help and so I took that as an opportunity to talk to him...now I wish I didn't because of course he said he was obliged, but then he asked me something about the g chord, and like I said, I know nothing about tuning it...I just shoved him my guitar and walked away. I must have seemed like such a poser.

    But I don't think I'm ever as happy as when I see him smiling, knowing that someone got through to him. And someday I want to be that someday who pulls him back. I want to be inside his mind and know more about him.

    The simplest things i notice about him nearly kill me everyday at school. But If I'm going to meet him, or maybe even one day come to be closer to him, I got to let it run it's own course. If that means I have to stop looking at him the way I am now, then I don't think I can do it...

    It's hard for me also, Michael.

  • undying blusher
    19 years ago

    Michael - Start by saying "hello." I would say, yes, he likes you. He may be shy...so it's up to you to make the first move. A simple, "hello" in the hall...and give him a smile! Then work up to getting the nerve to talk to him, try getting into a conversation. Btw, you're a great poet. :)

    ClosingBlueEyes - Wow. Take some time to write down some things you can say to him, so you'll be prepared...and talk to him! Please, talk to him!

    Weee...


    blush

  • Sick.&.Tired.Of.Waiting
    19 years ago

    lol--thank you! I'll try that...

  • Michael
    19 years ago

    Thx Undying Blusher. I am trying ways to show my love...but as in love poems( ill submit them ASAP) not signed by me, but by my poet name, "Silence." The problem here is that I want him to get it, without noticing me... any ideas?

  • Michael
    19 years ago

    Thx Undying Blusher. I am trying ways to show my love...but as in love poems( ill submit them ASAP) not signed by me, but by my poet name, "Silence." The problem here is that I want him to get it, without noticing me... any ideas?

  • Kimberly
    19 years ago

    welp its official hes gay. but does he knoe your gay too? maybe he turns away bc hes not sure of how u roll. and doesnt wanna hit on wht he thinks s a str8 guys.

    i think ur best bet is to express and let it be known that u are attractracted to people of the same sex as you are. this way you nd him can as i say "get it poppin".....sooo JUST TELL HIM love.

    worst thing is that he might not feel the same way. but expressing urself and letting it be known ull open the door for several other oppurtonunities and great possibilities.

    good luck and post it if it turns out gooooddd....im interested ;) loveeeee!

  • BeautifulDisaster
    19 years ago

    Michael my man, :) I'm in a similar sitatuion, The boy I like acts that way towards me too, maybe he is just really shy & stuff.

    Go talk to him, take the chance :)

  • Michael
    18 years ago

    Well I guess an update would be good I suspect...

    Nothing much has change...except that I lost count on how many times he was starring at me! Somewhere around...maby 35 this last 2 months or so. Also he starts smiling at me and starts saying hi!

    2 questions: Is he making the first move here?

    If not, should I make ther first move?