why does the ex come back as soon as your letting go??

  • Cherri
    19 years ago

    It's okay, I'll listen to anyone, and guess wat?
    (I'm telling the world!)
    I'M PREGNANT!

    -*-Cherri-*-

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    You are doing the right thing by rejecting her. She is one of these people who can never be satisfied with what they have. She will always want what she doesn't have.

    Yours is not a pointless topic. And don't be angry or upset. Just keep a mental image of what she was like and chalk it up to a learning experience. There are many, many women out there like her. Now, with this experience behind you, maybe you can recognize the signs that indicate red flags.

    And Yeah, there are guys like that also.

  • April
    19 years ago

    as hard as it is just let her go unless you want more heartache. why is love always so complicated and confusing??

  • firexflys
    19 years ago

    well the dont realize till there gone b/c they dont realize what they have just yet. but then they see when it's gone and they can have it. but who said love was easy theres always bumps and rough times maybe she just need time 4 her self to see who she was and realized that you what she really wanted. tho i am a person who is big on love coming back after you over her i bet it's hard but if you were really over her it would not piss you off so much b/c if your over her you shouldnt care but if you dont care then you never really love. my saying is if you love them fight for them but if you dont let them go and dont look back. we all have been put thorugh pain by some one we love but the truth is do you love them enought to forgive them for there mistakes when they realize them?.

    thats just me tho*

  • krysten
    19 years ago

    understandable why it pisses you off and you are right for not going back with her its not worth the hurt and people usually don't realize what they have untill its gone good for you for standing up for yourself

  • Kimberly
    19 years ago

    Too Badd that same stuff has happened to me in the past. No offense but she probably just REALIZED that she really is losing you. so now shes trying SoO hard to keep you hooked. ur probably askin why but its just for a back up plan incase all her other options fail. this way she knoes she can run back to you whenever she needs to. YEAH it defintely SUCKS. but dont get hooked. Somone mUCHHHh better is out there for you. and def wont treat you like thatttt.

    Yeah im sure you wanted my opinion lol.