Break-ups suck

I have to breakup with my girlfriend. She lives in London and I live in Mississauga, that's a 2 hour drive. She goes to a school that has a lot of parties, and I go to a school with really hot girls. We can't trust eachother, but we manage to fake it. I can't anymore, and it's bothering me alot. There are other people I would like to see, and I hate the fact that I'm still holding on to this girl. I may be holding her back from someone special, I wouldn't know. What goes on in London, I can never know. I have stayed true, and I'm sick of it. This is going to be a hard break up, because she was really cool, and really sweet. She doesn't deserve the pain, but I can't fake a smile anymore.
What do you guys think about this? Am I a fucking retard? I could be, I know I'm a fuck up, but whatever, everyone makes mistakes. I'm still learning.

I agree with "bloody tears", bud. you need to let her go, go your separate ways for now. If you guys are meant to be, then you guys will end up together. But you might be missing out on the love of your life by not letting anyone else in... So all I can say, is break up with this girl, let her go. Date other girls that you find interesting. And if worse comes to worse and you don't wind up with that first girl? Well, then the girl of your dreams will come sweep you off your feet sooner or later so don't worry hun! Hope everything goes well.

I know it's hard, but do what's best for her, if you're not thinking about yourself.

Break her heart before she can break yours.

I'm sorry...

I'm not very good with these type of things. =(

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(")-(") Arrivederci!

*Rips something up*

If you think your holding her back, then do what YOU think is best. Dont wait till ages and wait for her to get sooooo attachted, that breaking up with her would make it worse.

Just tell her the truth.

I just got dumped less then 3 hours ago, he was stupid to do it and he will regret it in the morning, but I'm okay with the fact he values are friendship enough that he broke-up with me. Sounds complicated and stuff, and most girls would be mad and abosultly heart broken. NOT saying it didn't hurt cause it did, and he knew it, hurt me.

Just...erm..follow what your mind and heart say, if you think your holding her back and what not then do what you have to do.

♥ Broken Angel ♥

Thanks alot, everyone's advice makes sense, and I really think it's the best thing to do. I just wanted to make sure it wasn't an asshole decision on my part. I really hate breaking up with girls, but if I have to do it, I eventually will. Thanks alot guys, and I'm really sorry to you Broken Angel. *hugs* hope you're hanging in there. I know how it feels, I've been on both ends, not cool. Well anyways, thanks again.

Exactly, dumb boys suck too!

You're exactly right, you shouldn't have to do the long distance thing if you feel it would be better when you two aren't together. Take care.

Yeah, good job bud!