Should I Just Let Go?

Hey everybody, heres my problem. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and last night he finished with me because he couldn't "handle it". Of course I was gutted and crying non stop for ages, and he kept saying really nice stuff to soften the blow i guess and to cut a long story short hes now saying he wants me back and although i love that guy to pieces and i do want him back, im thinking what if its how it was? although we never argued as much as we used to, i barely saw him and when i did it was for a few hours. Should i give me and him another chance or should i just let him go?

hmmmm....that's a tough one.... you said you hardly saw him...then what's the point of having a boyfriend? you could've been using that time you didn't spend with him to find a boyfriend that really cares about you. and when he said he couldn't "handle it" handle what? a lot of guys use that excuse when they just want a reason to break up with you. hmmm...since he said he wants you back you should tell him "i thought you couldn't 'handle it'" i'm not trying to nessecarily lead you a different way because if you really do love this guy and you think it could work then go for it...otherwise whose to say he won't hurt you again?

exactly my thoughts :( but he is he...you know how you have that place for a special guy hes my special guy :( thats why i stick with him..even if i can't see him all that much :( because he is who he is..mine :(

Well, I understand what she said, but Becky, I do agree with you, as long as you know that he's yours, you have the feeling of love, but it might not be anough, not jumping to conclusions, but what if one day, you don't see him at all, then the time period increases in which you don't see him, then what? That's al I'm saying. Just follow your heart, and be careful.

-*-Cherri-*-
Much love....

Yeh, *update*!!
He came round and said sorry and asked me out once again. I said yes, BUT I am being careful this time round, we are having a talk about us tomorrow so i'l bare this all in mind. Thanks for all your advice!! :) xx

The phrase "can't handle it" may be a clue that he is going through some kind of personal problem that he is having a lot of difficulty dealing with. That may be causing him to think and act strangely. A lot of guys have trouble talking about their own problems because if there is something they can't quickly solve by themselves, they see it as a reflection of weakness.

Well thats only on you because one thing iam going to tell you if you love him and he says or you know he loves you dont let him go cause love is hard to find give him another chance and if you find out its not working well tell him but i think you should give him another chance

I have to agree, I love him to bits, so much more than anybody iv ever loved, iv never been this bothered about being without him..being without him..knowing hes no longer "my boyfriend" it just doesn't feel right :( i'm not gonna let him go, he'l have to let me go if he wants to get rid of me! :) xxx thanks all for your advice, much appreciated :)

your welcome and wish you da best