but he kissed her?!?!

well me and my b-f just broke up...we are guna get back together we were like really serious and everything well last weekend he was at his moms and he um wrote me this letter tellin me how much he loved me and everything well i quote "jenn kissed me i realized right then that she could never be to me what you have been" should i forgive him for this cuz he did realize that i was more important but he still kissed her a kiss is a kiss...it hurts so bad that another girl could ever be there in my place kissing my man...but should i let this go, and get back with him or what i dont know what to do what if the kiss would have meant something? would she have taken my place that fast? i just dont know what to do???? i need advice Please!!

I depends on how strong you are, how much you care about him, and how much you believe him. Are you sure that all it was was a kiss? Are you sure that if you did take him back that he wouldn't do it again? If you did take him back would you be willing to forget about it...b/c if you hold a grudge against him for it your relationship would suck. You two obviosly broke up for a reason.... are you sure you want him back?

you broke up he was free to do anything he wanted ... and why did you break up when you instatnly wanted to get back ... was it a break? if you were just on a break than he could have not kissed the chick but if you broke up then you have no right to get mad at him....
on the other hand he shouldnt kiss anyone to find out how much you mean to him... what if he does it again i say you need to wait out more after you're over this kiss incident

well i dont know but to me it seems like hes just wanted to see if theres anyone better & if not, then he'll just have you or something...i mean i really dont know..just sharing what i think! but i think this thing could easily be worked out but only if you want to! do whatever you feel. good luck & take care`

I think Sophia is right if this only happened during the time you were broken up. If he was not inclined to cheat while you were with him, then you probably don't have much to worry about. However, if he is basing his decision to be with you on the result of comparing your kisses to those of the other girl, that sounds rather shallow.