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ok, well this is kinda a long story. I met this guy named Jory from my friend Kyle-Lynn. Jory and i talked on MSN and the phone so much, so one night, i invited him over. he came over, and we sat in my basement. Oh god..i don't know if I could even explain what i thought of him. We listened to music, and then he put his arms around me. I looked up at him, and he kissed me. yeah yeah, i know, sounds like a fairytale right?

wrong!

ok, so now, he doesn't know if that meant anything! He said that this girl he used to have a crush on just started going out with another guy. so now he has to talk to the 'love doc' named tabby, to see if he should go out with me, or if he needs more time to 'heal!!"

OH MY GOD, okay, this really pisses me off, because can't he decide for himself? He said that most girls don't meet his expectations, but he exceeds mine :'( it hurts so bad.

-do you think he's playing mind games? what should i do????

signed,
Confused & fed up with love.

hm......well i don't really think this is the guy for you. i'm sorry but i just don't. my friend had this same problem. this guy couldn't decide between her and this other girl for about 2 and a half weeks. it was kinda pathetic actually. so i'm gonna tell you the exact same thing i told my friend. even if he does decide to go out with you, you need to realize that he will be settling. never allow a guy to settle for you. it will make him feel that he is superior to you and you are below him...even though this guy seems to feel this way already.

x3 Paige

i agree with what is said above it seems like the guy feels like he can come back to you either now or whenever he'll be ready you are his fall back .... dont let him think like that dont be like that. stand up for your self ....

Thanks you two...

-if he wants to go out with me..too bad for him. i deserve a guy that actually WANTS to be with me. i dont wanna be a second choice.