how?

ok heres the scoop, I've known this guy since i was six and we've always been good friends and a couple months ago him and a good friend of mine started dating, a couple weeks before that i realized i liked (love now) him. But i soon convinced peeps i didn't (even my self) well him and my bff are still dating but they're having relationship problems because things that went on between me and him. His uncle told him he had to pick me or her, obviously he picked her she's his g/f and i'm just his younger friend that i met through my brother. But i just found out since some things happened between us a couple weeks ago he's had feelings for me so thats what makes it hard to deal w/ me and him taking time apart especially considering i can't even tak to him about it. cuz he refuses to talk to me and i dont understand why? Well my question how do i get through to him we need to talk and how do i find out why he chooses to let me go after he said he'd rather it be his g/f that let go when me and him got in afight about a month back?

- ok I'm very confused, first you say he doesn't want to talk to you and he picked his gf over you and then at the end you say "he said he'd rather it be his g/f that let go" So I would help but I'm confused -

-♥-Anarchy-♥-

Have yor friends talk to him. Maybe they can help him talk to you. While getting a lil info. Like them askin him if he likes you stuuf like that and see what he does. and see how he reacts when your name is brought up. If he doesn't want to tlk to your friends tell your brother. They are friends right? Or you could tell his friends. Maybe he doesn't want to talk to you cuz he doesn't wanna ruin his relationship with that girl. If you guys have been friends since you were six It should be fine. and maybe he's scared to let his true feelings for you show.

anarchy
he said the he'd rather have his g/f let go before he decide not to talk to me

-amber-
wow you sound like my friend i guess i never really thought that he did like me so thats why i didn't get the let his true feelings show when my friend said it but now that another person says it and not to mention his g/f (my bff) said that he admited to having feelings but i know if i said any thing he'd denye it. Well thanx for answering and just a question have you ever been in a situation like this before?

ye sthat kind of how I know what to do. Crazy things like this always happn in relationships. And you just have to accept lifes curveballs. Then throw them back. And they'll always come again. I sound like your friend? thats cool. We always need help and someone else to lean on. I'm here for you and tlk t me whenever u want.
lol

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-amber-
thats cool thanx for sayin u'll be there to talk
me and him still aren't talking but he told his g/f (my bfff) he wants to and that he's not sure if he has more than friends feelings for me So what am i suppose to do knowing that?