NOT OVER HIM..........please help

Hey everyone,
well the thing is.....theres this guy and we went out for quite a while (2months or so) and the thing is we broke up..........but i'm not over him. i love him so much it hurts. But he's a totally different person to wat he used to be. I mean......he used to be so sweet and kind and now he's too caught up in being popular to give a damn about me and my friends. I think i'm not in love with him.........but in love with who he used to be. But theres times where i catch a glimpse of that gorgeous sweet guy i knew and i think.....maybe theres hope. But i don't know what to do......any advice.......???? we're still kinda close...we talk on the phone every nite but he wont talk to me at skool.......too busy. well thank you heaps....

love ya jess xoxoxoxox

Sweetie, obviously your too good for this guy. If he can talk to you late at night on the phone but not in public. he just seems like a complete butthole. I say you should try to completely cut him out of your life. Forever and for good. Once somebody changes for the worst they usually don't change back into the guy they used to be. Trust me I know from experience. Just try to move on and find someone else. It will be better for you in the long run. Good luck!! If you need any advice email me at BrokenBabe0227@yahoo.com

Thanx gurls you guys rock.......the advice was great. Now i just need to work up the courage............................lol thanx...
Any problems with you gurls or boys???????

love ya heaps, jess xoxoxox

OH MY GOSH.... this is like how I am exactly!! holy cow!!! I understand so much. I liked a kid for two years, and pretty much we were together the whole time. Then this year... he's hanging out with different kids and he isn't as sweet as he used to be. But once in a while, like you, i can see a glimpse of that sweet guy I used to know. GOSH its the worst feeling ever! lol
good luck with your guy, hun

Thanx...i hope things get better with your guy. How annoying is it tho??????lol well guys will be guys = ) well today was as weird as ever...lol but thanks guys
love ya heaps, jess xoxoxo

I think that normally people have one personality unless they're mentally disordered. When they act one way sometimes and another way under different cicumstances, one of those is simply an act and a pretense. I understand that people sometimes put on their best behavior to make a favorable impression like on a first date or first week on a new job or such. But, other than that, I couldn't ever place much trust in people who spend much of their life putting on false pretenses.

Thanks...........although i was talking to him on the phone last night doing 3 way with one of my girl mates and we were just having a joke argument.......and i'm like
me- "so having fun flirting with ________ and ________"
guy- what??? your talking to me about flirting??"
me (confused) "huh wat r u talking about??"
guy- "dont think that i didn't see you flirting with alex, jess."

and i was like YAY he noticed me. and i thought he was ignoring me all that time,lol

luv yas heaps, jess xoxoxox