alone

jus recently i cant seem to let anyone in and im jus pushin people away all the time!my mates say that they have started to worry about me by some of the things im saying! anyone got any ideas to help me open up?

you've got friends there, don't be afraid to talk to them, otherwise you will loose them.

Yeah believe me, just brace yoursekf and talk. I know what it's like to lose friends by pushing them away. Just talk, it'll bring you closer.

the thing is i have really tried to talk to them but i just dont know how to open up anymore its like everythin has jus got too much and like a gate has closed, if that doesnt sound stupid!

It doesn't stupid at all, alot of people find themself unable to talk to those who's close because of depression.

The best advice i can give you, is write what you feel down and then give what you've wrote. it's much easier when you don't have to speak...

maybe after you'll be able to talk about stuff with them :)

thanks guys i will try those ideas

Things have been like that for me too lately, but its because every one i open up to hurts me. Maybe its the same for you, if so you could try talking to someone from the internet or something, so even if you can't trust them you can get it off your chest and there no one for them to tell. If you want to try that I'm always here to listen.

-Steph

yea i have felt like that alot , i usually write it down in a poem, many poems actually, and i give it to my friend and they read it and understand better or sometimes i have them starts talking about their problems and i will find myself saying things like " yea omg i feel like that too!" or " yea i do that alot" and things like that which gets me talking , i am also hear to listen totally and if you wanna try the idea up above i could use some talking myself lol but anyways my e-mails is uniquebabe911@yahoo.com and my AIM name is oOF0r3v3rL0stOo im totally here for anybody not just the person who started this thread i have been told i am very helpful so feel free anytime i hope your gonan be ok lots of love
*~*Becky*~*

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