my EX borfriend is stalking me..

i hate it i broke up with him cause he was how u put it, werid, and he freaked me out so i broke up with him, and told him to leave me alone and never talk to me again, and he continues to, he fallows me home, he runs to get to me! RUNS! i just want him to go the f**k away from me, i hate seeing him he is ALWAYS looking at me, and he is always fallowing me, no matter how much i tell him to stop, i mean a few other ppl tryed telling him to leave me alone and he sits right scross from me one the bus!!! for our championchips, he sits right across from me, and he sits alone but he dont even sit in the window seat he sits in the closes seat to me cause i cant seat by the window cause deering the bus ride i have to get into uniform, so i go to an empty seat and change, cause i go from pants and a tee to stockings a skirt undershirt then uniform shirt then jaket, cause thats my uniform, so... ya but i just want him to go away, i mean there was no open seat on bus 1 the bus im non, so i asked someone to give there seat up for a sec so i could change so if there was an open seat i would sit away form him but there just isnt one..

~jessi

well it isnt that bad yet i havent seen him since yesterday and he didnt fallow me home yesterday, cause it was raining and color guard and band go to differant gyms, so we (color guard) got out before band and so i ran to put my flag away then kinda walked REALLY REALLY fast home, and yesterday was the day one of my guy friends told him to back off so before i see someone bout it i wanna see if he will back off

~Jessi

Think about it from his point of view. He obviously really likes you. I really like a guy and I stay away but if he and I went out and broke up then...well i might act a little weird to. Try talking to him. Just cause you aint going out with him doesnt mean you cant be friends. Or it shouldnt, for his sake. Maybe he creeps you out a bit but as long as he doesnt want to hurt you...just try and be a bit more understanding towards his feelings cause it sounds like he's hurting and if you treat him like a freak just for having feelings then you dont deserve him anyways.

my point is i dont wanna be his friend, im sorry but he smells really bad, he not cute, he is werid he is sooo feakin creepy, he scares me to then point i never wanna see him, so

~Jessi

Hmm...if he's so bad then why did you go out with him in the first place...or was it a while ago? I kinda understand I guess. Maybe just try be tolerent. Wave when you see him, maybe say goodmorning...nothing more. Maybe not a good idea to smile either (If he's REALLY creepy).

Ew .. I once had this guy that would stalk me. His name was Andrew and he would always talk to me and I didn't think there was anything wrong with it. I never liked him but he seemed to like me a lot. He would come with my friends and I after school if we went somewhere just to see where we hang out and with who. If I wasn't at home he would call or go to my friend's houses askin where I was or if I was there. He had asked me out so many times I couldn't keep count anymore. One time, my other friend Tom had seen him with his shirt off and there were sratches on his arm. Tom asked what they were and Andrew said don't you see the begining of Nicole's name? Every time I had said no to him .. he would make a line in his arm. So the first 3 times I said no, he made the N. I got really scared and told my math teacher, he told Andrew if he talked to me again the police would be called and he would be charged with sexual assult. I haven't talked to him since.

the thing u had with andrew was like what i had with vasilios, urrg i think he staresat me through the seats when i chang into uniform on the bus, its soo freakin CREEPY!!!! i always feel like hes just watching me, i hate it!!!! i mean its bad enough that he has to fallow me and sit near me on the bus, but its even worse when he stares at me when i basicly have to take evereything off, cause yya, i go from pants to tights so id have to, but i just no, i dont want him to ever come near me!!!

~Jessi

PPLZ!!!! PLEASE HELP!

~JeZaBeLs

maybe he needs professional help, you should speak to a teacher or something, espically if he has a guidance teacher or something similar, because they will know him the best and they will keep it shut, unless they REALLY need to tell it for your safety or his

You told ur math teacher...sexual asault? How the...can he get done for sexual asault on you when he hasnt touched you-and he's self harming...for goodness sake ur math teachers a twat nicole...lol. But if the told people it was your name he scratched on his arm he might just be an attention seaker, either that or he REALLY likes you and is trying everything he can to get you to know it.