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  • TK
    19 years ago

    i hate guys everytime i begin to really like them it all gets screwed up. i did this time and just found out he is still deadly in love with his ex that he dumped. i'm hurt because he never told me...i feel like i've been stabbed in the back. i love him...and i mean that but i don't know if i should forgive him or forget him. also i just happened to find this out 9 days before our Sadie's dance...he's my date. What should i do???
    _Broken Angel_
    _Cassie_

  • Paige
    19 years ago

    i really don't think it's anything to worry about. look at it this way... ok lets say a couple got divorced. let's say their son was at his father's house. he asks his dad "dad do you still love mommy?" about 99.9 percent of the time the answer is yes. just because you still love someone doesn't mean you nessecarily love them in the same way. but you may still love them, you've just moved on to an even greater love. so your boyfriend still being in love with his ex doesn't mean he doesn't have an even stronger love for you.

    x3 paige

  • La La
    19 years ago

    i wouldnt worry bout it

  • ChildofGod87
    19 years ago

    Dang Cassie, this meant really suck to know 9 days before your dance:( Well, I think it's your choice really, cuz if his ex is going... either way your going to get hurt painful then you are:(...

    1)If you go and she's there... if she still has feelings for him, she'll eye him and show some signs to him.
    2)Be careful what's next....
    3)Just dump him already! But yes, I know you love him and your hurt and all... Pain isn't something anyone needs, especially at this situation!
    4)If you do dump him take some else to the dance and get back at him..lol.. Sounds fun! But it's mean:(..

    I hope I've helped or something!
    God Bless You!
    Best wishes 4 U;)

  • TK
    19 years ago

    Thanx~ i wish i could tell you the whole story or at least how much i love him. But no one will ever really know because there is not enough paper or words to descibe it. i can tell you this I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING FOR JUST ONE MORE DAY WITH HIM. lately i haven't been myself. Everything reminds me of him and it hurts. it hurts way tooo much. The thing was it used to be so perfect and for some odd reason i keep thinking that the reason this is all happening is my fault. I love him, always will .....but when he leaves for the military i hope he just remembers if he still loves me i'll always be here...