letting go

ok i'm 16 i'm in love i mean me and this guy jacob broke up all the way last april, and i mean he still hasn't left my mind yet, he's moved on with 4 differant girls now, and i tried to move on but i couldn't cause all i see is jacob's face, and i mean i try and tell him how i feel and everything but he doesn't get it, he says that we'll be together some day, but this somday is turning into never, and i don't really have all the time in the world cause he's going to graduate this year, and straight after he graduates he's going into the army, and also he's not breaking up with his girlfriend and they're even taking it to the next level (if you know what i mean) and it hurts so bad, so i finally got angry at him and told him i had a boyfriend, and all i got from him was 20 questions about this *boyfriend* i supposably have now. So i tried letting go and i cant cause i end up doing stuff i regret and i'm running out of reasons to make him realize how i feel about him. so please help me on what to do, cause from what it sounds like on here you guys will probably say *oh well she needs to let go* but he makes me feel so great inside, and even one touch from him makes me feel like the happiest girl in the world, so please help me.

well i probably would be one to tell you to just let go. but i really shouldn't be talking. i'm in love with this guy and he doesn't even know i love him. so i greatly give you credit that at least you are trying to tell jacob how you feel. all my friend's tell me to just let go because he likes this other girl and she likes him...they're not going out yet..but friends tell me to just let go and believe me i know how it feels...when sometimes....you just.............can't. so i'm sorry i can't help much because well i can't even bring myself to tell this guy i love him so even if i did give you advice no one should be taking love advice from me. but i guess my point here is to just tell you that well.....you're not alone when it comes to matters like this.

x3 paige

i want to let you know that i know how you feel. me and my boyfriend josh broke up a little of 3 months ago and i tried to move on but its hard not to still think about him. for me though, he says he doesn't love me...bvut in reality he's just scared to love me again b/c he doesn't want to get hurt. my advice would be to follow your heart, i was never one to tell someone what to do so do what you think is best. as k him about you guys, or what you guys used to be...maybe he misses you deep down inside and doesn't want to admit it. you never know. just talk to him.

best of luck to you

ok so now heres the deal, i'm kinda dating this guy that lives an hour away, and when i told jacob he called me that night all drunk asking me if he treated me right and if my boyfriend treats me better and i told him the truth, i said actually my boyfriend does treat me better but he said i treated him so good and everything, well later on in the conversation, he tells me the actuall reason why he called me was because him and his girlfriend were in a fight, and of course he knows he can come running back to me when he needs to, so as nice as i was, i gave the love of my life love advice for another girl. and then he didn't mean to say this but he did, he told me they are going "home" if you know what i mean. My heart never felt so broken and i am still in a daze about this and it happend 2 days ago. I couldn't even sleep last night cause i thought he would call me, but i guess i dug my own grave cause i gave him love advice, i even told him, how much i cared for him that night still, and yeah. he just says "oh" he says i'v treated him the best out of all his girlfriends, so whats wrong with me? why can't he see it?

I think Jacob just gave you more reasons to really try and get over him. What he said to you indicates that he has very little consideration for your feelings. But in a way you invited it by allowing him to engage you in a conversation about his gf. If it were me, I would have simply told him that I don't care to hear anything about his gf. But I probably wouldn't be talking with him anyway. That just makes it a lot more difficult to get over him. You sound like a nice, caring person. You deserve someone who appreciates that and treats you well.

well the truth you have to let go thats thge best thing you can do right now cause ive been through this i loved my ex 4 a whole year i finally got over him and im much happier.. damn loves makes people do some crazy shit...............

I know how it feels to hold on to someone and cant seem to figured out why the other person hasnt holded on.. the best thing to do is find the down falls in the person , it makes you wonder why did u like that person in the first place.Like for instance i liked this guy and he is one of my best friends and we hang out alot but he has a drug problem, so thats why it didnt work out because he wasnt acting the same around me.. anyways .. things always happen for reasons so maybe god is trying to tell u that there is someone else better out there for u!!