SHOULD I GIVE UP, OR GIVE IN?

i was having the same prblems, only i didnt knopw if he liked me...well a couple days ago his friend told me he did, so the next day i decided i was gunna get off my lazzy ass and ask him out....wwwayyy to complicated
and then it got to my friends
and his friends
and i was gunna ask him
and yea
he ended up asking me that very secund

well the point is....

i was thinking to myself i really didnt care if i got rejected because i wouls feel better about myself it was just those words that i couldnt say. if you want to listen to an absolut stranger .,..i say tell hom how you feel i mean i told the guy i liked and now were going out so yea but sometimes it works out and sometimes its just for the better.

its nice talkin to yea

I can definetly relate to that you guys...

Yesterday I was being a real jerk to him though, he looked very upset and got very quiet and wouldnt even look at me anymore when he "found out" I liked his friend..which is completely false and made up by my lonely bitter "friend" who wants to ruin me!!!

ok it seems like yal know wat you are talkn about. i also have a problem.
last friday i went to a football game, to watch my boyfriend play. well while i was there i saw his ex walk by wearing HIS LETTERMAN. i was soo madd. and when i confronted her about it she said they had never broke up. well i showed her some pretty interesting text messages and shared some pretty nice stories as did she. we both walked up to him after the game and blew everything out in the open. after i walked off i was told that she followed him crying and saying im sorry im sorry i ddnt mean it!!! then some of her friends call me and tell me that she would lie to get anyone on her side. and that they werent together after alll. but still why would he just go along with it. and how come i suddenly dont know who he is? i still REALLY like him. and tells me he really likes me too. but wat should i do? do i trust him?

Okay first advice to emily is-
hun just tell him, i mean the fact is you will feel so much better once you get it off your chest that you like him and 2 things could happen
1)he could say he liked you too and you guys would go out and all
2) he wouldn't like you back and you would get on with your life and get over him and find someone totally worth it.

hope that helped

ok well the next advice is for GRS

well since i've never been in this position i don't know how you're feeling but you must be pretty damn hurt and confused so much it hurts. Well i really believe that this chick is just an ex whos still hung up on your boyfriend and just can't let go of what they had. Even though its hard you shoudn't let her wreck what you and your boy have. Just talk to him about this and what you're feeling!!

well hope i helped = ) good luck

luv ya jess xoxoxo

girl you are 13, guys act like that for quite many years:P

Too baDd i bet this has happened to just about everyone. cuz i knoe it has happened to me. Theyre all Sweet and Cuddley one minute and the next there like..BLAH...dont even notice you. KILLER mood swings eh?

personally i just think you should tell him and get it out in the open if ur confident he does feel the same way and aint just being a tease. bc even if he doesnt feel the same way (which im not sayin he doesnt) ull knoe for sure soo it will give u the thing u need. closure. this way you can move on. simple.

good luck with it girl. BE OPTIMISTIC