â—Š Match Making â—Š

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    My damn sister is trying to play matchmaker. She's trying to hook me up with one of her "gangsta" friends.

    I'm not discriminating him because he's "gangsta" it's because I am not searching for a boyfriend.

    Now everyday he would ask for me or demand to see me face at least. I think it's uber sweet, but how can I tell him I am not interested?

    Oi. I am uber shy too. Just today, I was down stairs making hot chocolate and they dragged me out to meet him for the first time ever.

    Yeah, I'm out there with no shoes and a mug of hot chocolate in hand, looking as lost as ever.

    Anyways, he promised to be back the next day.

    ARGH! What a girl to do?!

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    I'm not sure. I just got out of a really nasty relationship, today was our first meeting face to face.

    I have heard about him from my sister, he asks about me everyday.

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Me&You (simply magical)
    19 years ago

    Hey atomic,

    well it depends i think that maybe,just maybe (just an opinion lol) just meet him and all. Talk and stuff and you never know....you guys might really get along. I mean you might not go out with him but you could gain a friend or something lol.
    I don't know if i helped much.....
    well GOOD LUCK hope it all works out and all

    luv ya jess xoxox

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    I love to get to know him, but my sister and her friends are always pressuring me to "really talk to him".

    And as I have stated before, I am very, very shy.

    I can talk to a guy if he's just a friend, but when my mind made up the fact that he is boyfriend material, I can't spark up a conversation to save my life!

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Me&You (simply magical)
    19 years ago

    Ummm maybe you should pretend he's just a close guy friend and just talk normally?? maybe even picture hes a girl?? And try and talk to him when your sis isn't around because you'll probably get all the *winking* omg he's looking at you *nudging* thing. which will totally kill the convo. lol
    luv jess xoxox

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    HAHAHA! That's true.

    Only she doesn't whisper, she says it out loud and then lock me outside in the cold.

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Me&You (simply magical)
    19 years ago

    ouch lol,
    but just be cool (no not try hard type of way) and just flow in the direction of the river or whatever it is lol. Things should be all cool.
    *wink*
    luv ya jess xoxoxo

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    I fear it's too late. I am known for being very heartless with my relationships...

    One would ask me to talk to them outside, I asked them what they want and they go on explaining themself.

    I would just turn around and leave them.

    Haha, I am rude when it comes to stuff like this, because I have no idea how to react when someone tells me they love me or want to get to know me better.

    Haha...he's still sitting across the street with his buddies.

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Me&You (simply magical)
    19 years ago

    GO UP TO HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and trust me i'm a cold heartless beep at times too. LOL i think its in our nature of being ladies. But over time...things will get better. BUT HUNNY GO OVER THERE NOW and get some convo started!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    luv jess xoxoxox

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    GASP! That's a no-no! I can't do this.....the shyness won't go away because I'm telling it to.

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Me&You (simply magical)
    19 years ago

    You just have to talk to your shyness (we sound like freaks lol) and tell it to go for a hike for an hour or so cuz your gonna do something thats a life changing step....do you have an excuse to go out there????

    luv ya jess xoxoxoxo

    *sings* You can do it, yes you can....Goooooooo ATOMIC lol

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Yes, I have a whole book of excuses. =P

    Me: My dog just died, I'm still in mourning.

    Him: It died three years ago...

    Me: Exactly, that's way too early, Mister. Don't you respect me and my dead dog?!

    Him: ...

    Or

    Me: I can't go out with you, my head hurts.

    Him: Let me get this straight, you can't go with me because your head hurts?

    Me: Exactly.

    Him: For three months straight?

    Me: Are you questioning my mental sickness?!

    Him: I....uh....no. Shouldn't you go see a doctor?

    Me: Are you trying to say I'm crazy?!

    Hahaha...need more? I have plenty!

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Me&You (simply magical)
    19 years ago

    OMG atomic you are one of a kind....hilarious gal!!! Um would these work to actually talk to him???? lol and you sooo don't need to go doctor, you're fine lol

    I LOVE THE EXCUSES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    luv ya heaps jess xoxoxo

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Pfft..who wouldn't? =P

    Now I'm more likely not gonna talk to him, his "crew" are out there starting trouble with another. You see, there's also a birthday party across the street.

    They are yelling and screaming at one another, I hate loud noises.

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Me&You (simply magical)
    19 years ago

    Hey that could be a GREAT excuse........

    Atomic- hey.....i really hate loud noises...my ears get sore
    gangsta dude- omg i'm so sorry please let me serenade you with a great love song
    Atomic- ooooooooooookkkkkkkkkk now its you who needs to go doctors lol

    OMG iTS PERFECT LOL

    well i gotta go now but good luck with GG (gangsta guy)

    luv ya jess xoxoxox

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Haha...nice excuse!

    Now that I know what one person feels of match making, I shall stop this nonsense and let them find their own prince charming or sleeping beauty.

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    What ever are you babbling on about?

    *snicker*

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    (")-(") Arrivederci!