I have a crush.............can someone help me?

Hey everyone, i am back again i have been gone due to work related things. well i have a cruch on this guy named willard and i sorta flirt with him and i told my bestest friends that i liked him and some of my friends told me that he liked me but didnt know if he would date me, so wat should i do? just ask him if he wants to hang out or wat? HELP ME!!!

~BHI~

Hey BHI,

omg hun you should so ask him to hang out. That way you can get to know him better and see if he is interested and even if you still are. Suggest either a group thing to a theme park, park, pool beach, movies.......etc or even if you guys have something in common (hobbie or a shared love of something) suggest that the two of you get together and do that. Like for example lets say you're both movie fanatics of some certain type and theres a new movie out= perfect get together.

well hope this helped, good luck sweetie!!!!!!!!!

luv ya jess xoxoxox

Thanks that helps and i would like to ask him out but the other thing is we work at the same place.

~BHI~

yeah?? but that could be taken to advantage........unless??? is he your boss???

luv jess xoxoxox

no hes not my boss hes my coworker i would say, but its bad enough that my boss really does make fun of me and says that me and him make a good couple and stuff and my boss says stuff like 'you wore makeup for willard' its kind of embarassing.

~BHI~

omg hun then that means its totally obvious to everyone that you 2 would be good together. And it also means that you've got the bosses approval so *thumbs up* you're in lol. But just suggest a little outing even if its after work for a bite to eat or something??? lol it might just work (IT WILL)

luv ya jess xoxoxo

well i mean i never wore makeup to work until after he started working there and everything and then everyone started noticing but how do i get his attention? i mean really?

um the make up is a really good way. Apart from that you should act like you are having the time of your life even if you're working and act confident but not too confident. Just be a fun person to be around!!!! And lots of eye contact and smiling!!!! Thats good!! And good body language and like when you talk to him stand close to him and just touch him on the arm and stuff!!
luv jess xoxoxox

there is another problem sadly, not many guys like fat girls and i am a bit chubby and stuff so i dont know how body language would work with that, and i always look at him and smile he makes me smile and i dont think he notices my make up but my boss sure does.

HELLO!!! hun, most of my guy friends told me they hate stick insects cuz they feel like they're gonna break in their arms. I mean all body types are cool and different ppl like different things. Just act yourself and be a little flirt queen.
*cheeky wink* lol
luv ya jess xoxox

u guys don't agree??

thanks for all your help but i wish people would actually help me out, i got your opinion and i want some other peoples opinions too, anything else you would like to tell me tip wise not-over-him? please.

but then it would be all over work and i would be more embarassed, got any tips?

well i am shy to a point but i want to be different i want to be strong so should i do it after work before work, or try to get his number?

ok i will have to try next friday when we work together again.

people tell me that he said he liked me but im not sure and he is 16 and i am going to be 16 in 19 days

Aw that's so sweet hun :)

Well, I have a similar story except my friend used to like my crush But I think he likes me now and she doesen't know I like him. I'm just kind of not doing anything right now but YOU

Hun definetly talk to him:)

This could be something great

thanks for all the help i think i will talk to him when i see him again. if anyone else would like to post anything else feel free too.

~BHI~