what should i do?? please help

  • Isabel
    19 years ago

    i love my best friend but i am not sure if he likes me well i guess you could say that i love him to death he changed my life but theres a problem see i want to take the next step i want to hook up but im not sure if he wants to.. but the thing is i feel like im cheating on him when i flirt with other guys see i love him sooooo much omg.. what should i do should i let him know how i feel????

  • firexflys
    19 years ago

    well i cant make you made that choice but i can tell you this the same thing happend to me but the thing was he had a girlfriend at the time so i keep my feeling to my self and i dont really know how i did but anyways the borke up after 6 months and i gave him about a month of time so he could get over his ex before i told him i liked him and it turnd out he liked me to 3 weekd after i told him how i felt he asked me out we went out for about a month and half feel in love and till this day still are and that was almost 7 monts ago though we no longer go out we are still bestfriend and we still love eachother and still talk everyday and were talking about going out again. b/c us breaking up was not are choice. but we cant forget the love we have and were not going to give up. anyways the best thing i ever did in my life was tell him how i felt and to getting that out and for him to finally know that was just the best feeling b/c even if he said he didnt like me it still be ok b/c i could always say that i tryed and i could move on with my life not regreting everyday that i didnt tell him. i love him so much and to share that love with him was the best feeling in the world and it was well worth the try even if he happend to say he didnt feel the same way back. i would have reathe know then to think maybe this could happen and not try.

    but then again this is me you can only do what you feel inside ask your self can you handle it if he says he dont feel the same why. i made that choice and both ways would have been fine for me cuz i tryed and i didnt give up till i knew. but think long and hard of what you can live with indise it's your life not mine.

    hope i helped.
    firefly

  • Kimberly
    19 years ago

    WOW. girl this truly is a hard one. cuz u dont want to have those weird situations around him if u do go and tell him how you feel and he doesnt wanna take it father then friendship.

    but then again ull always be living with the constant reminder about what if...?

    personally i think u should tell him how you feel and explain that u dont want it to ruin the friendship.

    Be optimistic he probably feels the same way about you.

  • cynthia
    19 years ago

    yes let him know how u feel and dont let him go ok tell him how you feel and take all the step and do it because if you dont tell him how you feel than he is never goingto find out maybe yea but thats if you show it ok then hopefully this helps you ok bye