*//*All males(and girls too I guess)Can you help?*//*

What are some ways a girl can show some her guy she loves him. Guys...what would you want your girl to do?

I'm a girl :)

Hehe, Anyways I show guys I like them hmm, I guess I kind of am really quiet towards them like I won't talk to them or I'll talk to their friend, I also like to flirt hehe do the hair flip -thumbs up- Lolz umm just be really shy or talkative dont be in between or else they'll think you just wanna be friends hehe, Uhm yeaah

NOW WHAT WOULD GUYS WANT I'D LIKE TO KNOW TOO :O

Another female here, but what I'm going to say comes from a guy.

There is some good insight into what guys need from girls (and vice versa) in the book *Men are From Mars, Women Are from Venus* by John Gray.

According to the author, and I believe this makes sense, the most important things that guys need from their girlfriends or wives are approval, trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration and encouragement.

On the flip side, the most important things that girls need from their guys are caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reassurance.

OMG that book is like AMAZING!! :D i read it once and i want to read it again!! Its a great book and makes a lot of sense.

What if you're crushing on someone how can you give them those things, you're not married to them?

Becky, it’s good to hear that someone else here has an appreciation for “Mars & Venus.” It helped me to have a better understanding of guys in general including my Father and other male members of my family and my partner, and then ultimately with my boyfriend who I met years after I read the book. The material isn’t necessarily original but the writer was the first to gather it all into one package with this book.

"What if you're crushing on someone how can you give them those things, you're not married to them?".

Well, you don't have to be married to offer a casual compliment to a guy. That's a form of admiration. You can also offer words of encouragement, appreciation, etc. in a casual way. In fact, that's the purpose that cheerleaders serve. But you can do the same thing on a one-to one basis.

^^ Not cool! Not even amusing!

You're talking to a lot of 13-14-15 year olds here.

Exercise some appropriate responsibility and common decency here.

I didn't even -know- what that was till I looked it up, and its disgusting that you can tell girls of this age that how to get guys to like them, some girls might blooming try it =|

Right, Lisa. At that age people should be thnking about things like ...uhh....PIE. =)

Hahahahhahahhahha
i find it kinda funny, and i guess that is what guyz at the age of 13-14 are thinking about :)
We should just be thankfull that theyre not pushing us ta do more......... well they are but u no what i mean :D